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混在美國名校(178)---浪漫與激情之真愛是誰

作者:海攀  於 2011-9-22 22:26 發表於 最熱鬧的華人社交網路--貝殼村

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回復 生於70『S 2011-9-23 07:32
我也認為劉娟愛的是鄭衛,從一些細節能夠感受到的。鄭衛這樣做,真的是傷了劉娟的心了。為鄭衛不再相信愛情感到遺憾,能夠理解他的感受,這樣的被拋棄和被傷害的經歷,很難讓人再投入的愛一次,這樣對劉娟也是不公平的,不過就愛情而言,也沒有公平可言,只能說幸福就好。
回復 maryuvic 2011-9-23 07:32
生於70『S: 小靜是個好女人。感覺小靜和鄭衛分手后,雖然著筆少了,但是人物比以前完整了,讓人看到了小靜的上進,良好的職業素質,知恩圖報,承擔委屈而不抱怨 - 人就是要有 ...
支持, 我覺得這裡的三個人都是好人。其實楊小靜的離開對鄭衛長遠來說,是件好事:)
回復 生於70『S 2011-9-23 07:49
肖俊傑的策略有問題,首先,他應該把自己擺在一個朋友的位子上,來讓劉娟慢慢的接受自己,而不是急於製造浪漫氣氛進入二人世界;其實劉娟並不反感他,但是覺得好像對他的優秀條件有點抵觸心理,害怕別人認為自己是攀高枝,所以他應該把自己擺低一點,哪怕是裝呢,說一說自己的苦惱和鬱悶,可能更能拉近和劉娟的距離。一味的靠送花和製造浪漫是很難打動劉娟這樣的女孩子的。他當初要是有我這樣的參謀,而不是鄭衛,可能就沒有鄭衛什麼事了:) 不過誰知道不是鄭衛故意不給肖俊傑支好招,把劉娟留給自己 - 那就太高了:)
回復 huangw 2011-9-23 07:50
smartman: 1. 麗莎又漂亮又性感又豐滿
2. if zheng could win over a white beauty, it would make our overseas chinese proud.

cultural difference and racial gaps ar ...
In this country, please think yourself as an individual. What one does is his/her personal choice. You do not need to carry a nation or race on your shoulder. Having a white girl/wife may be a status symbol as many successful black men in USA usually do. But why would Zheng Wei having a white girl friend make "oversea Chinese proud"? So, if he does not have a white girl friend, would it make you feel ashamed of him?
回復 smartman 2011-9-23 10:43
huangw: In this country, please think yourself as an individual. What one does is his/her personal choice. You do not need to carry a nation or race on your s ...
..."So, if he does not have a white girl friend, would it make you feel ashamed of him? "...

why did you feel ashamed?  you made up my statement?  do not coin any terms.

you should read the entire story to utter, you know.  do not jump into biased opinions on anyone else.

.." think yourself as an individual."...
this is truly a naive claim.  are you really able to claim you are an individual, unrelated to your origin, your race and your fellow countryman?
回復 海攀 2011-9-23 10:49
ultravires: 這時候她們需要一位流氓
這是誰說的?別讓老公聽到了:)
回復 海攀 2011-9-23 10:49
smartman: 1. 麗莎又漂亮又性感又豐滿
2. if zheng could win over a white beauty, it would make our overseas chinese proud.

cultural difference and racial gaps ar ...
但是他已經開始擔心了:)
回復 海攀 2011-9-23 10:51
生於70『S: 小靜是個好女人。感覺小靜和鄭衛分手后,雖然著筆少了,但是人物比以前完整了,讓人看到了小靜的上進,良好的職業素質,知恩圖報,承擔委屈而不抱怨 - 人就是要有 ...
楊小靜有她的缺點,但也有她的優點,至少比很多離婚女要強。吉姆是一個很自信的人,又知道大衛恨小靜入骨,自然不會太在乎。
回復 海攀 2011-9-23 10:52
生於70『S: 我也認為劉娟愛的是鄭衛,從一些細節能夠感受到的。鄭衛這樣做,真的是傷了劉娟的心了。為鄭衛不再相信愛情感到遺憾,能夠理解他的感受,這樣的被拋棄和被傷害的 ...
劉娟知道鄭衛對她的感情,也明白鄭衛是太自卑,所以總是鼓勵他。
回復 海攀 2011-9-23 10:55
maryuvic: 支持, 我覺得這裡的三個人都是好人。其實楊小靜的離開對鄭衛長遠來說,是件好事:)
她離開鄭衛還是很自私的,她自己也明白這一點,所以儘力補償。這也是她的過人之處。有的女人你要敢罵她一句她恨你一輩子。
回復 海攀 2011-9-23 10:57
生於70『S: 肖俊傑的策略有問題,首先,他應該把自己擺在一個朋友的位子上,來讓劉娟慢慢的接受自己,而不是急於製造浪漫氣氛進入二人世界;其實劉娟並不反感他,但是覺得好 ...
他既沒有機會也沒有時間。鄭衛還是希望劉娟嫁肖的,他根本不敢對劉有幻想。
回復 smartman 2011-9-23 11:00
海攀: 但是他已經開始擔心了:)
well, i have to say his concern is valid.  but i still hope he could win over lisa.  
回復 smartman 2011-9-23 11:01
海攀: 劉娟知道鄭衛對她的感情,也明白鄭衛是太自卑,所以總是鼓勵他。
liu juan should encourage zheng wei more and more and constantly ...
回復 nnzzll 2011-9-23 12:38
我就不覺得劉娟喜歡鄭衛,她只是還沒遇到自己喜歡的。
回復 玉石 2011-9-23 21:37
海攀: 劉娟早已經買了車了。

是的,很多女孩看上去象書獃子,實際上很有浪漫情調,只是有時太害羞,不好意思表現出來。
文中二次提到鄭衛要走人,還畢業就要走,去那裡?
回復 玉石 2011-9-23 21:42
smartman: at first thought, my guess was a car.  but 3K is too shabby to get a decent car.

the only feasible way, if it is a car, is, zheng bought a 3K car and ...
是啊,三千是太少了,而且他說的是其中的一部分,那更不可能是車了。
回復 smartman 2011-9-23 22:50
玉石: 文中二次提到鄭衛要走人,還畢業就要走,去那裡?
i think zheng wei believes he can get his phd soon if he wants because he has made solid progresses in his research.  so, he implies he will or can leave soon if he wants.

one of his promising future at this time is to join Fischer's team as a tenure-track assistant professor or at least as a post-doc.  the latter is certainly attainable because Fischer thinks highly of him already.

usually the last year as a phd student is very flexible because he has made enough progresses for his degree and will spend more time on job search.  he is ready to defend his thesis once he gets a job offer.
回復 BL_518 2011-9-24 01:51
生於70『S: 小靜是個好女人。感覺小靜和鄭衛分手后,雖然著筆少了,但是人物比以前完整了,讓人看到了小靜的上進,良好的職業素質,知恩圖報,承擔委屈而不抱怨 - 人就是要有 ...
  
回復 BL_518 2011-9-24 01:54
也許麗莎說得對,劉娟喜歡的是鄭衛~~~~~~~
回復 海攀 2011-9-24 04:21
smartman: well, i have to say his concern is valid.  but i still hope he could win over lisa.   
見美女就不放過?:)

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