有共鳴才能成為好朋友

跟人交往要有共鳴理解才能成為好朋友 To communicate with people, you need to have a sympathetic understanding to be good friends

Aug 13, 2017 at 12:15 PM


親愛的主席，88，網上說你們在北戴河加緊開會，權斗白熱化. 可是，昨天一整天，連你們那邊的半夜三更，你們也在跟Jackie交流，而且見縫插針地跟她講business. 平日你們對數學毫無興趣的，怎麼昨夜那麼信心滿滿地跟她講商業呢？就連億萬富翁大導演Steven , 這些年跟她那麼熟悉的，從來不跟她講商業的，也來跟她講business. 我心裡嘀咕，真的是你們嗎？ 其實Jackie真正需要的不僅是知識上的，她需要的是體驗人生，豐富情感，感受愛和培養愛的能力. 她的生活比較單純，不象國內小孩，日常生活中會有一大幫人圍著她轉的. 你們遠在天邊，空中交流，在她感性上的印象是要大打折扣的. 雖然Steven百忙之中不辭辛苦經常來看她，我非常感謝. 但他們在一起也就1小時左右，沒有實在生活的. 在她情感的發展人格的形成過程中，她所處的環境條件是不夠的.  那次她的好萊塢製片大朋友，在她的學校跟15年斷絕關係的父親和好見面，當著她的面親情緊緊擁抱，可是她一點感動和反應都沒有的. 她自己連父親都沒有，她怎麼能體會親情失而復得的情感呢？我曾經問她如果有一天你們不在她生活里了，她會怎麼感覺，「不知道！」 我心底深處感到她怕你們不再跟她講話，可是你們的去留她是沒法控制的. 我覺得如你們不在了，她不會在情感上有那麼大的悲傷遺憾懷念挽留痛苦. 而且在她人生中走來和走去有很多人，她沒有 sense， 沒意識到某些人在她人生中是不同尋常的非凡重要的！她人生才淺淺地開始，還沒有真正品嘗酸甜苦辣的深刻情感. 謝謝Steven有機會讓她跟那麼多的世界名流商業鉅子面對面親身見面交流，她可以問他們的職業人生經歷，可是她自己沒有足夠的人生閱歷去體會他們的情感，去了解他們人生的足跡中包含著人性.  她跟人交往要有共鳴理解才能成為好朋友. 也許有一天她真的明白了，她就不再是孩子了，就不可愛了. 親愛的主席，88，我覺得你們後面的 T & B 是年輕人, 閱歷決定了他們的立場角度是比較從同齡人來考慮的吧.  現在是看中和捧場奶茶妹妹的，讓她輕輕鬆鬆嫁有錢人生孩子，一躍成為最年輕最有錢富婆. 是跟她差不多年齡的手中有權的男生吧，劉強東只是被借用的工具. 章子怡趙薇范冰冰，她們至少每人還有幾十部電影呢. 如果是這樣, 人生還要努力幹嘛呢？讀書好, 有見識，卻沒工作. 我寫有價值短文, 卻沒一分報酬. 親愛的主席, 88, 你們有送我一大圈手紙嗎？

Dear Chairman, 88, said on line, you were meeting in Beidaihe, and the high-level power struggle was fierce. However, all day yesterday, even at midnight on your side, you were also communicating with Jackie and talking to her about business with you. You are not interested in mathematics normally, why last night  you were so confident about telling her about business? Even the billionaire director Steven, who is so familiar with her these years, never told her about business before, but came to talk about business with her. I murmured, is it really you? In fact, Jackie really needs more than knowledge. She needs to experience life, enrich emotions, feel love and cultivate love. Her life is relatively simple, unlike domestic children, there will be a lot of people around her in daily life. Yes. You are far from the horizon, you are communicating in the air, and her emotional impression is to be greatly discounted. Although Steven often visits her without hesitation, I am very grateful. But they are only 1 hour together. There is no real life. In the process of forming her emotional development personality, the environmental conditions she was in were not enough. At that time, her Hollywood production friend Sam, at her school, he met his father, who had broken off his relationship with him for 15 years, and they hugged each other tightly in front of her, but she didn't have any emotion and reaction. She didn't even have a father, how could she realize what about the emotions that have been regained? I once asked her how she would feel if you will not be in her life one day, "I don't know!" I feel deep in my heart that she is afraid that you would stop talking to her, but if you go or stay in the future, she has no way to control it. I think if you are gone, she will not have such great sadness and regret to remember the pain. And there are many people walking around and walking in her life, she does not have sense, does not realize that these people are unusual in her life and are very important! She has started her life shallowly and hasn't really tasted the profound emotions of sweet, sour, bitter and spicy. Thank you Steven for giving her the opportunity to meet and communicate with so many world celebrities and businessmen, she can ask about their career and life experience, but she herself has not enough life experience to understand their emotions, to understand the humanity and wisdom contained in their life footprints. She interacts with people and needs to resonate to understand them to be good friends. Maybe one day she really understands then she is not a child anymore, she』s not cute anymore. Dear Chairman, 88, I think the T & B behind you are young people, and their experience determines that their position is considered from their peers. Now they are fancy and holding the show like 「Milk tea sister」, let her easily marry rich people, have children, and become the youngest and the richest  woman. It was manipulated by boys who were about the same age as her and had powerful powers. Liu Qiangdong was just a borrowed tool. Actress Zhang Ziyi, Zhao Wei, Fan Bingbing, they each have at least dozens of movies. If it』s like 「milk tea sister」, why do you have to work hard in life? Studying is good, knowledgeable, but not working. I wrote so many valuable essays, but I didn』t get paid. Dear Chairman, 88, have you sent me a large circle of toilet paper?