中國的男孩子在美國找對象不容易。

在這邊中國的男孩子要找對象，很不容易的. 美國人流動性大. 要遇見愛情，穩定家庭，有太多的變數了.  It is not easy for Chinese boys to find objects here. Americans are highly mobile. To meet love and stabilize the family, there are too many variables.
美國是移民國家，美國人又經常調動工作，人來人往，流動性大. 要遇見愛情，穩定家庭，有太多的變數了. 前兩年發生過一件事兒，這邊俄國人社區，有一位不適應美國文化的俄國醫生，在美多年，依舊單身！俄國文化是有他自成一體的系統，俄國的文化比較美國來得高級精緻，這邊美國人對俄國人又不太友好. 這種情況在這兒太多了，越是從外來的，優秀的人才，在美國本土都難找到相融的人，尤其從歐洲來的人, 在文化上鄙視美國. 只有一大群傻*中國人才追美國文化！簡而言之，他在家鄉俄國找了一位年輕女子，來美結婚以後生了孩子，也許這位老兄孤獨慣了不會溝通，也許這個女子確實漂亮年輕，追求更高吧. 反正她眼這邊馬裡布海邊的一位有錢人勾搭上了，拋夫棄子，跟別人同居了！俄國人真是俄國人，那位丈夫覺得自己竹籃子打水一場空，氣血攻心，把這個不忠女子和孩子全家殺瞭然後自殺，破罐破摔破釜沉舟. 這是一個極端悲劇的個例吧！為了生存, 這邊有很多離婚, 家庭破裂這樣的悲劇的. 因為文化不同啊，生活習慣不同啊，成長背景不同啊！很多中國的年輕人都覺得美國好. 他們年輕，他們不知道，人生, 社會, 家庭需要什麼才能夠支撐的. 在這邊中國的男孩子要找對象，很不容易的！ 印度人只能管HR， 沒法管matching. 你看委內瑞拉有專門的訓練美女program, 從小培養美女長大去選美競賽. 國內的大學培養的是讀書人，那最多也能找國內相似的讀書人. 是不是也應該在學校之外，有人可以提供不同教育？從小來美國的小留學生，我說一句實在話，我本來以為來美國可以學好英文的，可是我發現來美國以後英文反而下降，因為沒有人教你了，每天只是日常英文，在美國你聽到的那些厘語你根本搞不懂，在中國還有專門老師教辭彙, 語法, 寫作什麼的. 如果你們能多花一點精力，把這個擇偶的HR握在手裡, 這才是為人類做一天大的好事. 88, 你喜歡瑞典點心嗎？我喜歡瑞典的國家, 不見得是那邊的人..... 如果王跟Jackie face time 的時候，要問她問題，讓她清楚essay的幾個部分要寫什麼，一定要她寫下來，然後朗讀給你聽的. 要寫要講的！要學會表達. 可不可以順便教她幾個吉他的chord? 對了先教她把音調準了.

The United States is an immigrant country, and Americans often change their jobs. People come and go and have great mobility. To meet love and stabilize the family, there are too many variables. One thing happened in the last two years, the Russian community here. There is a Russian doctor who does not adapt to American culture. In the United States for many years, he was still single! Russian culture is a system of self-containedness. Russian culture is more sophisticated than the United States. Americans here are not very friendly to Russians. This situation is too much here, the more foreign, the outstanding talents, it is more difficult to find mates in the United States, especially those from Europe, who despise the United States in culture. There is only a large group of stupid Chinese talents to chase American culture! In short, he found a young woman in his hometown of Russia. After he got married, she gave birth to a child. Maybe this man is used to being alone and will not communicate well enough. Maybe this woman is really beautiful and young, pursue higher. Anyway, she hooked up a rich man at the seaside in Malibu  and abandoned her own son and lived with that guy! The Russian is really Russian. The husband feels that his happiness has been ruined, and he is of extreme anger. He killed the unfaithful woman and the child and commits suicide. It breaks through the boat. This is an example of extreme tragedy! In order to survive, there are many tragedies such as divorce and family breakdown. Because of different cultures, different living habits, different growth backgrounds! Many young people in China feel that the United States is good. They are young, they don't know, to support life, society, and family, what it really takes. It is not easy for Chinese boys to find mates here! Indians can only manage HR, there is no way to help others match. You see Venezuela has a special training program, from childhood to beautiful women to grow up for  beauty contest. Domestic universities are trained to bescholars, and at most can find similar domestic scholar. Is it not? Should there be outside the school, can someone provide different education? When I came to the United States from a young age, tell you the true, I originally thought that I could learn English well in the United States, but I found that after coming to the United States, my English has declined. Because no one has taught me, every day is just daily English. In the United States, you hear those idioms you don』t understand at all. There are special teachers in China who teach vocabulary, grammar, and writing. If you can spend a little more energy and hold this mate』s HR in your hands, this is a great thing for human beings. Super good things. 88, Do you like Swedish snacks? I like the country of Sweden, not necessarily the one over there..... If Wang and Jackie face time, ask her questions, let her know what parts of essay are going to write, be sure to write it down, Then read it to you. Write it! To learn to express. Can you teach her a few guitar chords by the way? I taught her to adjust the tone first.