標題: 愛情里女人最看重男人哪一點：幽默or無私？ [列印本頁] 作者: ccc6 時間: 2016-4-24 22:40 標題: 愛情里女人最看重男人哪一點：幽默or無私？ Most people would think if it's not good looks that make a man most attractive to women, then it's definitely a sense of humor.
大多數人認為如果不是男人的外表吸引女人的話，那麼一定就是他們的幽默感吸引著女人。
But studies show that altruism is actually a quality women are especially drawn to when they are looking for a relationship.
但是研究表明無私才是女人在尋找一段愛情時候最看中的男人的品質。
One study, published January 2016 in the journal Evolutionary Psychology, presented 202 women with different men to choose from. The different combinations of choices were either attractive or not, and they either did a good deed or didn't.
The women chose the selfish, attractive men for a one night stand. But for a long-term relationship, they chose the altruistic man whether he was attractive or not.
That's not to say other traits don't matter. Humor is also important to women selecting a mate, researchers have found. It makes women assume a man?is more intelligent.
這並不是說其他的優點不重要。研究者發現幽默感也是女人擇偶的一個重要標準。這會讓女人覺得這樣的男人更加睿智。
For building long-term relationships, though, altruism is consistently found to be a crucial and highly desirable trait.
對於建立長期的感情關係，無私一直是一個至關重要的和高度可取的特點。
Another study, published in The Journal of Social Psychology in 2013, found that women valued altruism above other traits as a measure of whether a potential mate would make a good parent. They also said altruism was important for short-term relationships, but significantly more women said the trait mattered for the long-term.