賭徒都是「借錢王」 撒謊的演技勝「影帝」

剛到國外真是大開眼界，但最讓我開眼的還是周圍的同胞。他們自到了這三不管的地界後人性大變，做人無底線，做事不計後果是最突出的表現。在國外大家都是一面之交，用不著顧及面子，誰也沒想把這種「臨時抗戰」關係搞的天長地久。所以，鄉親們的表現完全是放開了自私，沒誠信，沒公德，沒有歉讓可言。 你有用就使你一把，沒用玩蛋去，全是一鎚子買賣。如果你再遇到點倒霉的事，鄉親們跑的比兔子還快。不過他們也有幾句肺腑之言: 「國外這爹死娘嫁人的地界，語言不通，洋人又惹不起，不坑坑老鄉還能活人嗎」。 但有一種人始終的不離不棄，他們就是賭徒。

因為國外的生活太寂寞，沒有真朋友，沒有家人和親屬的陪伴與監督。鄉親們難免要找點小樂子犒勞一下自己疲憊的身心，嫖和賭當為首選。玩這個不需很好的語言能力和學問，又不用結伴同行，天一黑您到位就行了。他們還為自己找了個連他爹都不能反對的理由: 白妞就是國外的長城。哪有到了家門口都不去逛逛的道理。

但嫖與賭的區別還是挺大的。就是有錢也未必有「泰森」的身子骨。您那窩頭底子的身子板兒能扛的住經常到「長城」上遛遛嗎？ 沒多久鄉親們就以賭為主，嫖個「白長城」已是掛不上嘴的小事。

賭可大可小，如果是小玩，去個小酒鋪找台1分或5分的老虎機就可以了，有$2, 30刀就能玩很久。有時還能贏個幾十或$100來塊。（初玩的手氣較好,女人比男人手氣更好） 就是輸了賭爺也不會在意，本來就是玩玩，也沒指著它發財。 可賭爺千萬別贏個 $500～$5000的，那後果可是毀滅性的。他們一旦贏了「大錢」就會聯想到自己的才能，機遇和終身職業的問題。

有位賭爺給我算了一筆賬。他說:「俺不貪，一天贏個$300就走人，按6天工作日計算就是$1800/周。去哪找這麼好的工作呀？不但可以天天玩，還能掙錢，又不用擔心丟工作。您再瞧瞧這賭場的工作環境，多棒呀! 再看看那些整天跟奔命似的白領，天天讓老闆捏著小命，一到年關就哆嗦，怕被炒。 瞧瞧咱哥們，多自主，多自由呀，讀那麼多書有什麼用呀」。 啊？! 只在文革時期我聽過讀書無用論的說法......

賭徒們在短短的幾周后就進入了逢賭必輸的階段，他們唯一的想法就是把錢撈回來。賭爺們在我面前的豪言壯語和滿臉的自信變成了謙虛，善解人意和低三下四。他們說話的聲音虛弱的就像剛做完腹腔手術，一看便知借錢賭搏的日子開始了。

為了借錢賭搏而編出的理由幾乎是喪盡天良。他們說所有的親人都得了「癌症」等著錢開刀。沒錢交房租只能睡在大街上，已是6天水米未進，借錢絕對不是為了賭搏而是為了救親人和生存。同時還不停的發誓要重新做人等等。賭徒們發毒誓是他們看家的本領 ，一旦錢到手他們會用最快的速度把它扔進老虎機。 賭徒是我見過最沒有人格的人。一人賭搏將禍害所有的親朋好友。

賭爺1：這位爺為了賭搏丟了工作，欠了房東$4千多元的房租（$400多/月），致使房東都不敢轟他出去。1995年妻女與他團聚時，他已欠下$9萬多元的賭債。又因他每天去賭場「翻本」 很少回家，9歲的女兒因缺少家庭溫暖而出走，(家裡沒有食物) 當她孤獨的坐在公園裡流淚的時候又遇上了當地著名的老童戀癖。幸虧警察及時發現，免遭橫禍。 他老婆看不到任何希望後跟著賭1一起賭，說是為了快點還賭債。結果這對賭搏夫妻一舉創下當地賭場連續賭博4天4夜不出門的記錄。18年過去了，他們所欠賭債至今未還。 （他出國前是名內科醫生）

賭爺2：他賭搏成性，賭了十年分文無歸，輸掉了一切及人格。 外號「借錢王」。他輸光了他舅給他做生意的$20多萬元貨款。(錢是國內單位的公款) 為了繼續賭，29歲的他還發明了一定能把錢「借」 到手的絕招。 他帶著60多歲的母親挨家挨戶的借錢。一進門老人家一句話不說，坐下就不停的流淚，我們就是鐵石心腸也看不下去呀。 他不但用此方法先後從朋友那裡騙走了好幾萬元，還從此音信全無。他母親為了自己兒子卻深深的傷害了所人的兒子。 （他出國前是科委幹部）  

賭爺3：賭3好賭的基因是他出國后才發現的。他不像其他賭徒還假惺惺的說兩句賭搏害死人之類的話。他認為在賭場上才能找到真漢子的血性。往賭桌邊上一坐，那膽識，氣魄和揮金如土的感覺才是真爺們。 有一次他到外地賭場去玩，進賭場前跟他老婆說錢包放在你這，如果我輸了，無論怎樣求你罵你都別把錢包給我，咱們的家底全在這了，一定要記住！ 那女人坐在椅子上雙手緊緊的攥著錢包，傻呼呼看著她心目中的「英雄」。 半小時后，輸的精光的賭3回來了。他要錢包，老婆不給，賭3上來就搶，老婆嚇的滿賭場跑。失去理智的 賭3 邊追邊罵的行為引起了保安的注意。 等賭3輸光了所有的錢后才想起他們已經一天一夜沒吃飯了，就連加汽油回家的錢也沒了。（他出國前是國稅局的幹部）

賭爺4：他不像上邊那幾位有魄力，膽敢拿自己的身家性命搏一把。 他什麼都要顧著，什麼也不想捨棄。無論做人做事都不像個爺們，就是「狂」賭的時候同樣給人一種偽男的感覺。

賭4家裡有位著名的悍妻永遠指引著他們家前進的方向。俗話說家有悍妻如有一寶。可掌控一切的母老虎也有打盹的時候。有一次我們去賭4家聚會。悍妻做飯時發現醬油沒有了，她給了賭4 $20元，叫他快去快回。可我們從下午5點一直等到夜裡12點，賭4也沒回來。

那天賭4一出門拿著$20直奔附近小酒吧里的老虎機，誰能想他一把就贏了$500。賭4馬上轉道去了24小時營業的賭場，先贏後輸….，折騰了一夜。 第二天上午兩手空空的他出了賭場后才想起醬油和母老虎的事。
後來聽說賭4膽敢挑戰悍妻懲罰條例的後果是: 跪一個月的「搓板」，免房事六個月，不能出席兒子的家長會和學校舉辦的任何活動，每日上班只能帶$5的額度降為0。（他出國前是位英語教員）

20多年過去了，這一代年輕人都已經50多歲了。當年的賭徒不但毀了自己和家庭，還利用了朋友的善良與忍讓。他們破壞了他人的家庭利益，傷害了朋友之間的情感和友誼。賭徒們輸掉不是金錢與時間，而是寶貴的朋友情義與信任。 賭徒們，這一切你們用錢買的回來嗎？

北京的大平
2014-12-1  

世界日報：賭徒邸千霸租紐約家庭旅館 敲詐勒索3000美元

家庭旅館惡房客 拿錢落跑

在法拉盛Ash大道夾邦恩街（Bowne St.）某家庭旅館租一個床位的中年華裔男子邸千，日前向警方指稱房東把門反鎖、扔他東西等多種惡劣手段企圖非法驅趕。房東孫先生則稱，雙方糾紛是因邸千欠龐大賭債，沒從他那裡借到錢而報警。警方介入后，雙方終於和解，邸千帶著房東借他的數百元日前搬出家庭旅館，並留下一封給房東的信，作為借據。

房客邸千投訴稱，房東孫先生得知市樓宇局（Building Department）要來檢查后，開始驅趕房客，因他不肯搬走，多次把門反鎖，扔掉他放在冰箱的食物和一些日用品，還企圖把他的行李箱扔到街頭。

針對這起投訴，孫先生表示，「這房客不久前因攻擊罪被捕，釋放后沒錢，我出於好心讓他住進來，勸他改惡從善。」

孫先生指出，雙方此次衝突的起因是賭博，「上月20日，他說賭博輸掉老闆讓他辦事的錢，不還錢工作就沒了，因此開口向我借1000元，我沒借他，後來了解到他把離婚賣房剛分到的錢也輸掉了，而且向幾個人借錢還沒還」。

「因為我不借他錢，他就不付租金並威脅稱，這個家庭旅館非法，他就在這裡不走，而且要去舉報，讓旅館開不下去。這種情況下，我決定關閉家庭旅館，讓其他住客搬走。沒想到，他開始搞破壞，弄壞電飯鍋、撬門、砸鎖、威脅，朝我臉上吐口水，拳頭在我眼前晃，嚇得我們不敢進屋。」

關於邸千投訴他換鎖一事，孫先生指出，對方聽說如果房東換鎖，警察可以逮捕房東，於是就以換鎖為由，兩次從逃生樓梯爬到四樓，從窗口進入。孫先生解釋，他開始並沒有換鎖，後來不得已才換鎖是因為邸千在鎖心裡塞了牙籤。

孫先生強調，「我並沒有扔他的行李，現在他連吃飯的錢都沒有，前幾天，想向我要3000元，最少2500元，說拿到錢馬上就搬走。我最終給了他700元，他在周二早上搬走了，還寫了一封給我的道歉信，此事也算告一段落」。

孫先生指出，紐約有上千家家庭旅館，數以萬計的華裔房東分租床位給打工者。家庭旅館和分租都不合法規，但卻為眾多收入不高、以打工為生、甚至要寄錢回國的華裔移民提供很多便利、降低他們的生活成本，為政府解決一些社會問題。

世界日報記者／紐約報導
July 28, 2015

邸千，男，1971年2月出生，遼寧省大連市人，現居紐約法拉盛，職業是送貨司機。嗜好抽煙賭博，打架鬥毆，詐騙，欠債不還，誣告債主及房東。有犯罪被捕入獄記錄。

Failed gambler Qian Di occupied a guesthouse and extorted $3000 (World Journal post)

An evil tenant blackmailed money from a guesthouse then escaped

Qian Di, a milldle-aged Chinese man who rented a bed from a guesthouse on the Ash Avenue and Bowne Street in the Flushing Town, ecently told the police that his landlord try to drive out him illegally with a variety of harsh means, such as locked the door and throw him baggages. However, the landlord Mr.Sun said, their dispute is due to Qian Di owed huge gambling debts, and can not to borrow money from him, then, called the police. Through the police intervention, the two sides finally reconciliated----Qian Di moved out of the guesthouse recently with hundreds dollars whice the landlord lended him, and leave a letter to landlord for a debt note.

The tenant Qian Di complained that his landlord Sun drives all tenants while hearsay the City Department of Buildings will examine to come. Mr.Sun locked the door repeatedly, and throwed his refrigerator foods and some daily necessities because he refused to move out. Mr.Sun even attempted to throw his trunk to the street.

In view of this complaint, Mr.Sun said, "This tenant was arrested by the attack crime not long ago. He has no money after the release. I let him lived here by my kindness. Also I advised him to mend his ways."

Mr.Sun pointed out that cause of comflict is Qian Di indulged in gambling. "On the 20th of last month, Qian Di told me that he lost the payment for goods of his boss in the gambling. He was afraid that he might lose his job if he doesn't return the payment to his boss. Therefore he asked me to loan $1000. I didn't lend money to him yet. Soon after, I learned that he had sold his house which he got by the divorce case. He also borrowed money from many people and has not returned to them."

"He didn't pay the rental to me because I didn't lend money to him. He declared this guesthouse is illegal. He will not only to stay living here, but also will report to the government. He threatened to make my  guesthouse close. In this case, I decided to close the guesthouse, and persuaded other residents move away. Unexpectedly, he began to engage in sabotage, such as damaged the electric rice cooker, and pried the doors, and smashed locks.He was using violence and intimidation. He spited in my face, and shaked his fist in front of me. Therefore We dare not enter here again."

Regarding the case which Qian Di complainted his landlord changed the lock, Mr.Sun pointed out that Qian Di knew the law requires that the police can arrest the landlord who changes the lock without authorization. Thus Qian Di use it as an excuse to climbed from the escape stairs to the 4th floor and came into the window. Mr.Sun explained that he would not change the lock originally, but he changed it later because of Qian Di crammed the toothpick in the lock.

Mr.Sun stressed, "I did not throw his luggage. Qian Di has no money to buy foods now. A few days ago, He ask me to borrow $3000, at least $2500. He said that he will leave at once, as soon as he gets the money. Finally I gave him $700. He, then, moved out on Tuesday morning, and wrote an apology letter to me. This matter was end."

Mr.Sun pointed out that there are thousands of guesthouses in New York. Tens of thousands of Chinese landlords sublet beds for the migrant workers. The beds subletting of the guesthouses are illegal, but they provide some conveniences for many Chinese immigrants who are low-income, and work for a living, or even to send money to home. The guesthouses reduce their living costs, and help the government to solve some social problems.

World Journal reporter / New York post
July 28, 2015

Translator: Ms.Le Zhou

(Qian Di, a Chinese male, born in February 21, 1971. He is living in Flushing town, New York City now. He is addicted to gambling, fighting, fraud, false debt, creditors and the landlord. He has some criminal records. Warning: Do not lend your money or rent your room for the Chinese gambler Qian Di! If you find out that he is trying to harm you, please report to the police immediately. His SSN is 115-23-9532.)