記住這些話，做個聰明人（中英文雙語）

1.一個人總要走陌生的路，看陌生的風景，聽陌生的歌，然後在某個不經意的瞬間，你會發現，原本是費盡心機想要忘記的事情真的就那麼忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.  　　
　　　　


2.幸福，不是長生不老，不是大魚大肉，不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃，想被愛的時候有人來愛你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It』s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.  　　
　　　　


3.愛情是燈，友情是影子，當燈滅了，你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友，是在最後可以給你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off, you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.  　　
　　　　


4.我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
　　　　


5.愛情，要麼讓人成熟，要麼讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down. 　　


　　　　
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜，大多數人的愛情，都是負重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down, it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.  

　
　　　　
7.我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中，人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人，用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人，再用一天的時間去愛上一個人，到最後呢，卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
　　　　


8.一個人一生可以愛上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬於你的幸福之後，你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富，它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.  　　
　　　　


9.年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛，但是隨著年齡的增長，終於領悟到愛一個人，就算用一輩子的時間，還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人，體諒這個人，直到愛上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
　　　　


10.當明天變成了今天成為了昨天，最後成為記憶里不再重要的某一天，我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推著向前走，這不是靜止火車裡，與相鄰列車交錯時，彷彿自己在前進的錯覺，而是我們真實的在成長，在這件事里成了另一個自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we r pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.  　
　　　　


11.離開我就別安慰我，要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain. 　　
　　　　


12.曾經擁有的，不要忘記。不能得到的，更要珍惜。屬於自己的，不要放棄。已經失去的，留作回憶。
Don't forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things you can』t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.  

　　
　　　　
13.我喜歡並習慣了對變化的東西保持著距離，這樣才會知道什麼是最不會被時間拋棄的準則。比如愛一個人，充滿變數，我於是後退一步，靜靜的看著，直到看見真誠的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things. Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.


　　　　
14.男人的愛是俯視而生，而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山，那麼男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men. 　　
　　　　


15.好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界，壞的愛情是你為了一個人捨棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.　
　　　　


16.在自己面前，應該一直留有一個地方，獨自留在那裡。然後去愛。不知道是什麼，不知道是誰，不知道如何去愛，也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情，也許永遠都沒有人。可是，這種等待，就是愛情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself. 　　
　　　　


17.有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦？我們總以為那份痴情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發現，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛的很深，很深，來日歲月，會讓你知道，它不過很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛，必須和時日一起成長。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up with the time.  　　
　　　　


18.在這個世界上，只有真正快樂的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
　　　　


19.女人如果不性感，就要感性；如果沒有感性，就要理性；如果沒有理性，就要有自知之明；如果連這個都沒有了，她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
　　　　


20.一段不被接受的愛情，需要的不是傷心，而是時間，一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心，需要的不是同情，而是明白。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting. A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding. 　　
　　　　


21.我知道這世上有人在等我，但我不知道我在等誰，為了這個，我每天都非常快樂。
I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this. 　


　　　　
22.一生至少該有一次，為了某個人而忘了自己，不求有結果，不求同行，不求曾經擁有，甚至不求你愛我。只求在我最美的年華里，遇到你。
In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love. Just ask for meeting you in my most beautiful years.  　
　　　　


23.我不覺得人的心智成熟是越來越寬容涵蓋，什麼都可以接受。相反，我覺得那應該是一個逐漸剔除的過程，知道自己最重要的是什麼，知道不重要的東西是什麼。而後，做一個純簡的人。
I don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's a selecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's the least. And then be a simple man. 　　
　　　　


24.當你的心真的在痛，眼淚快要流下來的時候，那就趕快抬頭看看，這片曾經屬於我們的天空；當天依舊是那麼的廣闊，雲依舊那麼的瀟洒，那就不應該哭，因為我的離去，並沒有帶走你的世界。
When you feel hurt and your tears are gonna to drop. Please look up and havea look at the sky once belongs to us. If the sky is still vast, cloudsare still clear, you shall not cry because my leave doesn't take away the worldthat belongs to you. 　　　



25.人生並非都是選擇題或是是非題，大部分是應用題，要我們一點一滴的論證，取捨的過程，做錯了也沒關係。
The life is not always full of multiple choices or the yes-or-no questions,but application questions which need us to prove little by little. During theprocess, we need to make choice to get or lose. It matters not even if we getwrong answers.



26.愛，有何必多問？問得太多，只怕就不愛了。成熟的人不問過去；聰明的人不問現在；豁達的人不問未來。
Why to ask so much when you are in love? If you ask too much, maybe you nolonger love. The mature never ask the past, the wise never ask the present andthe open-minded never ask the future.



27.當你認為被拋棄的時候，受損失的其實是對方：因為他失去了一個真正喜歡他的人，而你只不過少了一個不喜歡你的人罷了。
When someone abandons you, it is him that gets loss because he lost someonewho truly loves him but you just lost one who doesn't love you. 　


28.你越想知道自己是不是忘記的時候，你反而記得越清楚，我曾經聽人說過，當你不能再擁有的時候，唯一可以做的就是令自己不要忘記。
The more you wanna know whether you have forgotten something, the betteryou remember; I once heard that, the only thing you can do when you nolonger have something is not to forget.



29.緣分不是人海中兩個人的擦身，緣分是不可能的相遇。比如我是空中的鳥，你是林中的豹，只是我們碰巧相愛。
Love is not about running into each other in crowds. Love is an impossiblemeeting. For example, I am a bird flying in sky, you are a leopardin forest. We just fall in love accidentally. 　



30.自己愛的人同時也愛著自己，這簡直是一種奇迹，神明為這種奇迹取了一個名字，叫作戀愛。
The one you love also loves you. This is a miracle. And the god names thisas falling in love with each other.



31.我知道這世上有人在等我，但我不知道我在等誰，為了這個，我每天都非常快樂。
I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of whohe is. But I feel happy every day for this.



32.曾經有機會目睹他最軟弱最糟糕的時刻，你仍然能夠微笑接受他的不完美，並且和他共同擁有這個秘密，這段愛情才能夠長久一些。
Once I have the chance to witness his worst moment, but you still can accepthis defects and keep this as secret. Then ur love will last longer

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發人深思。

確實是發人深思。

經典。

對於「愛」這個行為，中西方的文化很相似！

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記住這些話，做個聰明人（中英文雙語）
1.一個人總要走陌生的路，看陌生的風景，聽陌生的歌，然後在某個不經意的瞬間，你會發現，原本是費盡心機想要忘記的事情真的就那麼忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.  　　
　　　　
或者根本不用費盡心機去忘記任何事情，換個角度去看待可能也會釋然，而且效果更快。

2.幸福，不是長生不老，不是大魚大肉，不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃，想被愛的時候有人來愛你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It』s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.  　　
　　　　
拙見認為：幸福是每一個生活願望不管達成沒達成都感恩；有的吃感恩，沒得吃也感恩；被人愛感恩，沒人愛也感恩；

3.愛情是燈，友情是影子，當燈滅了，你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友，是在最後可以給你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off, you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.  　　
　　　　
燈滅了不一片漆黑，還看得見影子嗎？
俺看燈亮時別忽略影子就更好了。

4.我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
　　　　
俺愛你是因為你是你，而不是你的頭銜和地位；而俺在你面前什麼都不是也可以。

5.愛情，要麼讓人成熟，要麼讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down. 　　

無條件去愛，人就成熟了，更不會墮落。
　　　　
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜，大多數人的愛情，都是負重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down, it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.  

愛情包含了承重、負責。可惜很多人都只想享受愛情，不願承重、負責。還沒舉起來，就扔下了。
　　　　
7.我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中，人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人，用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人，再用一天的時間去愛上一個人，到最後呢，卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
　　　　
這其實是個幻覺，俺們實際上都生活在當下，且為了未來而活。看見了更好的未來的話，一秒鐘就會把那個人忘了。

8.一個人一生可以愛上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬於你的幸福之後，你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富，它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.  　　
　　　　
嘴唇沒有不碰牙的，有時會碰得很痛，但唇齒註定要相互依存，唇亡齒寒啊。

9.年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛，但是隨著年齡的增長，終於領悟到愛一個人，就算用一輩子的時間，還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人，體諒這個人，直到愛上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
　　　　
夫妻確實需要互相寬厚為懷。

10.當明天變成了今天成為了昨天，最後成為記憶里不再重要的某一天，我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推著向前走，這不是靜止火車裡，與相鄰列車交錯時，彷彿自己在前進的錯覺，而是我們真實的在成長，在這件事里成了另一個自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we r pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.  　
　　　　
人們成天忙碌，要得到什麼寶貴的東西，卻不成想俺們最寶貴的財富 – 時間 就這麼偷偷地溜走了。人因為毫無價值地生氣、懊悔、報復。。。而浪費的時間實在是非同小可。

11.離開我就別安慰我，要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain. 　　
　　　　
安慰不安慰是他/她的事兒，痛不痛可是你自己的選擇。

12.曾經擁有的，不要忘記。不能得到的，更要珍惜。屬於自己的，不要放棄。已經失去的，留作回憶。
Don't forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things you can』t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.  
Life goes on, 贊！
　　
　　　　
13.我喜歡並習慣了對變化的東西保持著距離，這樣才會知道什麼是最不會被時間拋棄的準則。比如愛一個人，充滿變數，我於是後退一步，靜靜的看著，直到看見真誠的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things. Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

因為如果別人也是這樣「保持距離」地想看你的真誠的感情，你倆有啥機會呢？還是首先看看自己是不是想真情付出來得更好吧。
　　　　
14.男人的愛是俯視而生，而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山，那麼男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men. 　　
　　　　
因人而異吧，普遍地來說，好像北京男人和上海男人的愛就不同；北京女人和上海女人的愛也不同。

15.好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界，壞的愛情是你為了一個人捨棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.　
　　　　
愛就是愛，無私就是好，有私就不叫愛了，叫交換。

16.在自己面前，應該一直留有一個地方，獨自留在那裡。然後去愛。不知道是什麼，不知道是誰，不知道如何去愛，也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情，也許永遠都沒有人。可是，這種等待，就是愛情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself. 　　
　　　　
這種等待，背後其實應當是「不知所措」造成的。

17.有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦？我們總以為那份痴情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發現，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛的很深，很深，來日歲月，會讓你知道，它不過很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛，必須和時日一起成長。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up with the time.  　　
　　　　
期望得到的愛，很多時候都是幻覺；而自己無條件付出去的愛，才最最真實。

18.在這個世界上，只有真正快樂的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
　　　　
男人和女人應當都一樣，只有自己心裡先快樂了，先幸福了，才能享受到從別人那裡來的快樂和幸福。沒聽過那樣的描述嗎：「此人生性快樂，結果朋友遍天下；此人生性豁達，結果家庭生活美滿。」

19.女人如果不性感，就要感性；如果沒有感性，就要理性；如果沒有理性，就要有自知之明；如果連這個都沒有了，她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
　　　　
沒這麼複雜，女性只要善解人意就好，這樣對人對己都是福分。

20.一段不被接受的愛情，需要的不是傷心，而是時間，一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心，需要的不是同情，而是明白。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting. A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding. 　　
　　　　
還是那句話：愛情被拒絕總會傷心，大哭一場后，再換個角度去看就能釋然。
別人明不明白你沒關係，關鍵是自己心裡要明白這個大實話：
愛是付出，不是得到；得不到很正常，得到了要感恩。

21.我知道這世上有人在等我，但我不知道我在等誰，為了這個，我每天都非常快樂。
I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this. 　

等什麼？守株待兔沒有用，主動出擊才有收穫。而又沒有人等，有沒有收穫，都要很快樂。為啥？自己的生命就是祝福啊。
　　　　
22.一生至少該有一次，為了某個人而忘了自己，不求有結果，不求同行，不求曾經擁有，甚至不求你愛我。只求在我最美的年華里，遇到你。
In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love. Just ask for meeting you in my most beautiful years.  　
　　　　
多次也不錯啊，因為人一輩子的年華其實都是最美的，要充分享受每一個階段。

23.我不覺得人的心智成熟是越來越寬容涵蓋，什麼都可以接受。相反，我覺得那應該是一個逐漸剔除的過程，知道自己最重要的是什麼，知道不重要的東西是什麼。而後，做一個純簡的人。
I don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's a selecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's the least. And then be a simple man. 　　
　　　　
一個純簡的人就不會去「剔除」了，那只是「純窄」。反而寬容的人通常很簡單。

24.當你的心真的在痛，眼淚快要流下來的時候，那就趕快抬頭看看，這片曾經屬於我們的天空；當天依舊是那麼的廣闊，雲依舊那麼的瀟洒，那就不應該哭，因為我的離去，並沒有帶走你的世界。
When you feel hurt and your tears are gonna to drop. Please look up and havea look at the sky once belongs to us. If the sky is still vast, cloudsare still clear, you shall not cry because my leave doesn't take away the worldthat belongs to you. 　　　

說得好，自己的世界沒人能帶走，通常只是自己覺著被別人帶走罷了。

25.人生並非都是選擇題或是是非題，大部分是應用題，要我們一點一滴的論證，取捨的過程，做錯了也沒關係。
The life is not always full of multiple choices or the yes-or-no questions,but application questions which need us to prove little by little. During theprocess, we need to make choice to get or lose. It matters not even if we getwrong answers.

應用的過程就包含了各種選擇的，選對選錯時時刻刻都在發生。

26.愛，有何必多問？問得太多，只怕就不愛了。成熟的人不問過去；聰明的人不問現在；豁達的人不問未來。
Why to ask so much when you are in love? If you ask too much, maybe you nolonger love. The mature never ask the past, the wise never ask the present andthe open-minded never ask the future.

豁達的人不計較過去，不在乎現在，只下決心在未來無論怎樣，都一心一意地去愛心上人。

27.當你認為被拋棄的時候，受損失的其實是對方：因為他失去了一個真正喜歡他的人，而你只不過少了一個不喜歡你的人罷了。
When someone abandons you, it is him that gets loss because he lost someonewho truly loves him but you just lost one who doesn't love you. 　

如果不需要用這個原因，就能自己釋然了的話，境界就沒得頂了。之後也更容易找到摯愛。

28.你越想知道自己是不是忘記的時候，你反而記得越清楚，我曾經聽人說過，當你不能再擁有的時候，唯一可以做的就是令自己不要忘記。
The more you wanna know whether you have forgotten something, the betteryou remember; I once heard that, the only thing you can do when you nolonger have something is not to forget.

不在乎是否擁有，只在乎自己是否真心付出的人，不會有這個 「忘不掉」的煩惱。

29.緣分不是人海中兩個人的擦身，緣分是不可能的相遇。比如我是空中的鳥，你是林中的豹，只是我們碰巧相愛。
Love is not about running into each other in crowds. Love is an impossiblemeeting. For example, I am a bird flying in sky, you are a leopardin forest. We just fall in love accidentally. 　

一生所能夠碰到的所有人，也可以說都是命里註定的。看起來不可能的相遇，也是命里註定。
因為從幾率角度來看，包括父母兄弟姐妹在內，每一個個體的每一次相遇都是不可能的！！！
要珍惜，要珍惜！當然，不珍惜的話也是命里註定的。

30.自己愛的人同時也愛著自己，這簡直是一種奇迹，神明為這種奇迹取了一個名字，叫作戀愛。
The one you love also loves you. This is a miracle. And the god names thisas falling in love with each other.

這種奇迹可能開始於你無條件地愛對方。

31.我知道這世上有人在等我，但我不知道我在等誰，為了這個，我每天都非常快樂。
I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of whohe is. But I feel happy every day for this.

這個上面說過了

32.曾經有機會目睹他最軟弱最糟糕的時刻，你仍然能夠微笑接受他的不完美，並且和他共同擁有這個秘密，這段愛情才能夠長久一些。
Once I have the chance to witness his worst moment, but you still can accepthis defects and keep this as secret. Then ur love will last longer
這就是包容，贊。

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