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相比起顏值,美國人更看重的是性格相投,有相同價值觀和利益交換  Compared with the value of the face, Americans are more concerned with the same personality and exchange of the same values and interests.
讀書的時候聽很多人說我像男孩子。我從來不覺得自己像男孩,我只是思考問題的方式比較理性些,有時候還覺得那些男孩子想事情都稀里糊塗的!進了工程師行業,軍工,漸漸覺得這個不是女生待的地方,因為男生多,不但得不到他們支持,而且他們又比較地自以為是!這邊因為住地分散,保密單位,大多數男性工程師除了家裡老婆,平時是很少跟外界社交的,不喜歡比自己聰明的女生. 他們希望每天看的是一個漂亮的,聽話的,年輕的女性. 女孩子讀那麼多書那麼聰明做什麼呀?漂漂亮亮性感才受歡迎啊。所以希望Jackie能夠打扮得漂漂亮亮地見人,多認識一些人以後能夠順利走江湖。其實在美國大多數女性都不是很有錢的,生活壓力大,為保持身材健康狀況也不是一流的。我看見在Starbucks 打工的女生都用濃厚的化妝品, 很多女孩子的一生也就那麼平平淡淡地過了!而且在洛杉磯離婚率已經超過50%。有的時候想一想,也許伊斯蘭世界女孩子受保護還不一定是壞事啊!在中國,如果女孩子超過35歲還沒有結婚,那就是大齡青年,很難找婚配對象。而且中國的婚配價值。都是男生比女孩子年長. 在美國就不是,美國人有一部分人看顏值,可是我覺得有很大部分卻不是。我以前的房客,在一起的大部分都是外表不般配的. 可見這是美國這邊的價值,也許他們男女接觸多了,知道顏值的吸引力可能不會超過幾個月,而且可以同時交好幾個男女朋友. 如果找長期的伴侶,他們更看重的是性格相投,有相同價值觀和利益交換吧。這邊有很多的單親家庭,我所有的美國老闆他們的父母都是離婚的。這些孩子成長過程中都缺一點什麼,長大以後組成家庭大多數也有問題。美國這個社會,越來越不穩定,孩子的教育在品德上家庭價值上有欠缺。孩子們都是看好萊塢的電影長大的,有時候電影里宣傳的價值不正確,有時候把現實和想象混淆了。也許我太守舊了。覺得伊斯蘭教價值和美國的價值,如果能中和一下,就挺不錯的。你們覺得呢? 親愛的習主席,88,你們也欣賞我昨天寫女性部分? 今天晚了,下次再寫。

When I was at school, I heard many people say that I am like a boy. I never feel like a boy. It』s just that the way I think about the problem is more rational. Sometimes I still think that the boys think things are confusing!  Into the engineering industry, military, gradually felt that this is not a place for girls to stay, because there are many boys, not only do not get their support, but they are more self-righteous! Here, because of the scattered residence, in confidential units, most are male engineers, except for their wives, they rarely socialize with the outside world. They don』t like girls who are smarter than themselves. They want to see a beautiful, obedient, young woman every day. Girls are so educated, so smart, what for? It』s popular to be beautiful and sexy. Therefore, I hope that Jackie will be able to dress up beautifully, meet more people, and be able to walk smoothly in the future.  In fact, most women in the United States are not very rich, and they are under great pressure. To stay in shape, health is not first rate. I saw that girls working at Starbucks used strong cosmetics, and many girls』 lives were so plain! And the divorce rate in Los Angeles has exceeded 50%. Sometimes think about it, maybe the protection of girls in the Islamic world is not necessarily a bad thing! In China, if a girl is not married at the age of 35, it is a left adult and it is difficult to find a match. And the value of marriage in China, boys are older than girls. This is nit the case in the United States, some Americans look at face value, but I think a lot not. My former tenants, most of them are not well-matched by facial values. It can be seen that this is the value of the United States. Maybe there are more contact with men and women. They know that the attractiveness of face value may not exceed a few months, and they can make several male and female friends at the same time. If  looking for a long-term partner, they value the same personality and have the same values, or exchange with the interests. There are a lot of single-parent families here, all my American bosses and their parents are divorced. These children are lacking something important in the process of growing up. Most of the families who grow up have problems. The American society is becoming more and more unstable, and children's education is lacking in family value and  morality. Children are growing  up watching Hollywood movies. Sometimes the value of propaganda in movies is not correct, sometimes confusing reality with imagination. Maybe I am too old. If you think that the value of Islam and the value of the United States can be neutralized, it is quite good. what do you think? Dear President Xi, 88, do you also appreciate the fact that I wrote the female part yesterday? It』s late today, I』ll write it again next time.

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