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怎樣教育孩子十二招[英漢對照]



第一招，如果孩子提的問題很難，父母當下無法回答，應該查詢資料后再回答孩子，切忌不懂裝懂，父母也可以藉機教導孩子怎樣去尋找答案。
If your child asks a difficult question that you can''t answer, first seek the answer and then answer him or her. Do not pretend to understand, as well, you can teach your child to find the answers for himself.


第2招：培養孩子的注意力，父母可以購買拼圖，從少塊的拼圖逐漸增加塊數及拼圖的複雜程度，如此一來，孩子集中注意力的時間也會不斷地增加。
To improve your child''s attention span, have your child play with puzzles beginning from a few pieces and then gradually to more difficult puzzles.


第3招：面對喜歡提問題的小孩，父母千萬不要以為孩子還小，三言兩語就想打發孩子，因為孩子會感受到你敷衍的態度，漸漸地失去發問的熱情、好奇心及求知慾喔！
When facing a child who likes to ask questions, don''t answer him in a manner to quickly send him away. He can feel the lack of effort on your part and gradually lose his desire to ask questions, his curiosity and his thirst for knowledge.


第4招：孩子在學習上，時間愈長K不意味效果越好。專註力也會影響學習的效果，注意力的集中時間大約在5-10分鐘，建議任何學習的安排，應以不超過30分鐘為宜。
In terms of learning, a longer length of time doesn''t necessarily mean a better result. "Concentration" also influences learning result. A child can concentrate for approximately 5 to 10 minutes. Thus, it is suggested that any learning activity should not exceed 30 minutes.


第5招：建立孩子用餐禮儀，可讓小朋友在用餐前後，幫忙做一些準備與收拾的簡單工作；用餐中可教育孩子碗筷不可敲敲打打、咀嚼食物中不可說話等。
Teach your child''s table manner by asking him to help prepare for a meal and to clean up after a meal. While eating, teach your child table etiquette such as not hitting the table with his chopsticks or bowl as well as not talking with his mouth full.


第6招：對待個性較為害羞認蚯也簧票澩鐧暮⒆櫻改賦誦枰感牡墓鄄歟部梢雜帽冉杴崴傻奶裙睦⒆鈾黨鮃蟆
Dealing with a child who is shy and unable to express himself, parents need to carefully observe and encourage him in a calm manner to express his desires.


第7招：孩子的各方面學習可以與生活情境相結合，為讓孩子認識日常所吃的食物名稱，不妨帶孩子到傳統市場或超市一起購買東西。
Use daily situations to teach your child a variety of different things. To teach your child the names of certain food items, you can take him to the supermarket to shop together.


第8招：父母平常處理事情的想法或態度上會影響孩子，如果您常用沮喪心情面對事情，嘴上熳潘擔骸拔以趺茨敲吹歸寡劍　狽炊菀自斐珊⒆尤蘸笤謔慮櫬砩鮮潛邸⒏好嫻奶取
A parent''s own opinions and attitudes of dealing with certain situations can also influence a child. If you face a problem in a negative and pessimistic manner, such an attitude can lead to your child dealing with situations in the same way.


第9招：為孩子準備屬於他的清潔工具，如，小掃帚、小水桶，讓他負責一小塊地方，如，遊戲室等，這能增加孩子的責任感，以及對勞動的興趣。
Teach your child the importance of household duties. You can have him be in charge of cleaning a certain area such as the playroom. You want your child to be responsible but also have fun too!


第10招：加強孩子的空間觀念，父母對孩子說話時，多用在「裡面」、「上面」、「下面」、「前面」、「後面」、「最上面」、「最下面」等詞語。
To improve a child''s concept of space, parents can use adjectives such as "in", "on", "in front", "in back", "on top" and "at the bottom" when talking.


第11招：告訴孩子多注意聽聲音，如，聽到草中的啾啾聲，就教他認識蟋蟀的叫聲，聽到池塘邊的呱呱聲，就教他認識青蛙的叫聲，還有汽車發動聲、喇叭聲等等，都可刺激孩子的聽覺。
Teach your child to be aware of the sounds around him. Teach him that the chirping sounds in the grass are the sound of crickets. Tell him that the "ribbit" sounds from the pond are the sound of frogs. As well as nature sounds, you can also teach your child the sounds of the city.


第12招：訓練孩子認識部份與整體的概念和集中注意力，父母可購買一些拼圖遊戲，不論硬紙板、木頭或塑膠材質均可。
To help with a child''s concept of both the sum and its parts, parents can give their child puzzles made of cardboard, wood, plastic, or ones that parents have made themselves.
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