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讀李康【命運論】有感

作者:劉小曼  於 2016-5-18 20:18 發表於 最熱鬧的華人社交網路--貝殼村

作者分類:生活雜感|通用分類:其它日誌

關鍵詞:文章, 命運, 幸運

這篇文章能流傳到今天,是因為它的立論放在任何時代,任何地方都是正確的。 每個人看問題的角度都有所不同,譬如,幸運的人不知道自己的運氣好而常常抱怨,在別人眼裡是不幸的人,他們卻認為自己是幸運的。如果一個人一天內發生很多不愉快---早上跟老婆吵架,憋屈,出門車子撞了樹,回到公司被老闆罵,下午回家路上被匪徒攔路搶劫, 當事人認為自己的遭遇是倒霉透頂了, 但他老婆沒有因此而生氣跑掉, 他沒在交通意外中受傷,雖然車子維修需要一筆錢, 老闆沒雖然罵了他,但沒有炒了他,歹徒沒有槍殺他,雖然錢包被搶了。  一個女人覺得自己很幸福,有一個好老公,但她老公在外面有小三,大家都知道,她卻不知道,所以在別人眼裡她是不幸的。
所以說「運也,命也,時也」  任何情況下都可以拿來感概一番,無論是運氣好或壞。
 
 
作品原文
第一段

  夫治亂,運也;窮達,命也;貴賤,時也。故運之將隆,必生聖明之君。聖明之君,必有忠賢之臣。其所以相遇也,不求而自合;其所以相親也,不介而自親。唱之而必和,謀之而必從,道德玄同⑴,曲摺合符,得失不能疑其志,讒構不能離其交,然後得成功也。其所以得然者,豈徒人事哉?授之者天也,告之者神也,成之者運也。
第二段

  夫黃河清而聖人生,里社⑵鳴而聖人出,群龍見而聖人用。故伊尹,有莘氏之媵臣也,而阿衡於商。太公,渭濱之賤老也,而尚父於周。百里奚在虞而虞亡,在秦而秦霸,非不才於虞而才於秦也。張良受黃石⑶之符,誦三略之說,以游於群雄,其言也,如以水投石,莫之受也;及其遭漢祖,其言也,如以石投水,莫之逆也。非張良之拙說於陳項,而巧言於沛公也。然則張良之言一也,不識其所以合離?合離之由,神明之道也。故彼四賢者,名載於籙圖,事應乎天人,其可格之賢愚哉?孔子曰:「清明在躬,氣志如神。嗜欲將至,有開必先。天降時雨,山川出雲。」⑷詩云:「惟岳降神,生甫及申;惟申及甫,惟周之翰。」⑸運命之謂也。豈惟興主,亂亡者亦如之焉。幽王之惑褒女也,祅始於夏庭⑹。曹伯陽之獲公孫強也,徵發於社宮。叔孫豹之昵豎牛也,禍成於庚宗⑺。吉凶成敗,各以數至。咸皆不求而自合,不介而自親矣。
第三段

  昔者,聖人受命河洛⑻曰:以文命者,七九而衰;以武興者,六八而謀。及成王定鼎於郟鄏⑼,卜世三十,卜年七百,天所命也。故自幽厲之間,周道大壞,二霸之後,禮樂陵遲。文薄之弊,漸於靈景;辯詐之偽,成於七國。酷烈之極,積於亡秦;文章之貴,棄於漢祖。雖仲尼至聖,顏冉大賢,揖讓於規矩之內,誾誾於洙、泗之上,不能遏其端;孟軻、孫卿體二希聖,從容正道,不能維其末,天下卒至於溺而不可援。
第四段

  夫以仲尼之才也,而器不周於魯衛;以仲尼之辯也,而言不行於定哀;以仲尼之謙也,而見忌於子西;以仲尼之仁也,而取仇於桓魋;以仲尼之智也,而屈厄於陳蔡⑽;以仲尼之行也,而招毀於叔孫。夫道足以濟天下,而不得貴於人;言足以經萬世,而不見信於時;行足以應神明,而不能彌綸於俗;應聘七十國,而不一獲其主;驅驟於蠻夏之域,屈辱於公卿之門,其不遇也如此。及其孫子思,希聖備體,而未之至,封己養高,勢動人主。其所遊歷諸侯,莫不結駟而造門;雖造門猶有不得賓者焉。其徒子夏,升堂而未入於室者也。退老於家,魏文候師之,西河之人肅然歸德,比之於夫子而莫敢間其言。故曰:治亂,運也;窮達,命也;貴賤,時也。而後之君子,區區於一主,嘆息於一朝。屈原以之沈湘,賈誼以之發憤,不亦過乎!
第五段

  然則聖人所以為聖者,蓋在乎樂天知命矣。故遇之而不怨,居之而不疑也。其身可抑,而道不可屈;其位可排,而名不可奪。譬如水也,通之斯為川焉,塞之斯為淵焉,升之於雲則雨施,沈之於地則土潤。體清以洗物,不亂於濁;受濁以濟物,不傷於清。是以聖人處窮達如一也。夫忠直之迕於主,獨立之負於俗,理勢然也。故木秀於林,風必摧之;堆出於岸,流必湍之;行高於人,眾必非之。前監不遠,覆車繼軌。然而志士仁人,猶蹈之而弗悔,操之而弗失,何哉?將以遂志而成名也。求遂其志,而冒風波於險塗;求成其名,而歷謗議於當時。彼所以處之,蓋有算矣。子夏曰:「死生有命,富貴在天」故道之將行也,命之將貴也,則伊尹呂尚之興於商周,百裡子房之用於秦漢,不求而自得,不徼而自遇矣。道之將廢也,命之將賤也,豈獨君子恥之而弗為乎?蓋亦知為之而弗得矣。凡希世苟合之士,蘧蒢戚施之人,俛仰尊貴之顏,逶迤勢利之間,意無是非,贊之如流;言無可否,應之如響。以窺看為精神,以向背為變通。勢之所集,從之如歸市;勢之所去,棄之如脫遺。其言曰:名與身孰親也?得與失孰賢也?榮與辱孰珍也?故遂絜其衣服,矜其車徒,冒其貨賄,淫其聲色,脈脈然自以為得矣。蓋見龍逢、比干之亡其身,而不惟飛廉、惡來之滅其族也。蓋知伍子胥之屬鏤於吳,而不戒費無忌之誅夷於楚也。蓋譏汲黯之白首於主爵,而不懲張湯牛車之禍也。蓋笑蕭望之跋躓於前,而不懼石顯之絞縊於後也。
第六段

  故夫達者之算也,亦各有盡矣。曰:凡人之所以奔競於富貴,何為者哉?若夫立德必須貴乎?則幽厲之為天子,不如仲尼之為陪臣也。必須勢乎?則王莽、董賢之為三公,不如楊雄、仲舒之閴其門也。必須富乎?則齊景之千駟,不如顏回、原憲之約其身也。其為實乎?則執杓而飲河者,不過滿腹;棄室而灑雨者,不過濡身;過此以往,弗能受也。其為名乎?則善惡書於史冊,毀譽流於千載;賞罰懸於天道,吉凶灼乎鬼神,固可畏也。將以娛耳目、樂心意乎?譬命駕而游五都之市,則天下之貨畢陳矣。褰裳而涉汶陽之丘,則天下之稼如雲矣。椎紒而守敖庾、海陵之倉,則山坻之積在前矣。扱衽而登鐘山、藍田之上,則夜光玙璠之珍可觀矣。夫如是也,為物甚眾,為己甚寡,不愛其身,而嗇其神。風驚塵起,散而不止。六疾待其前,五刑隨其後。利害生其左,攻奪出其右,而自以為見身名之親疏,分榮辱之客主哉。
第七段

  天地之大德曰生,聖人之大寶曰位,何以守位曰仁,何以正人曰義。故古之王者,蓋以一人治天下,不以天下奉一人也。古之仕者,蓋以官行其義,不以利冒其官也。古之君子,蓋恥得之而弗能治也,不恥能治而弗得也。原乎天人之性,核乎邪正之分,權乎禍福之門,終乎榮辱之算,其昭然矣。故君子舍彼取此。若夫出處不違其時,默語不失其人,天動星回而辰極猶居其所,璣旋輪轉,而衡軸猶執其中,既明且哲,以保其身,貽厥孫謀,以燕翼子者,昔吾先友,嘗從事於斯矣。
附:
「Be lucky - it's an easy skill to learn

Those who think they're unlucky should change their outlook and discover how to generate good fortune, says Richard Wiseman」

A comment about the above:

Source:
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/techn ... skill-to-learn.html



A decade ago, I set out to investigate luck. I wanted to examine the impact on people's lives of chance opportunities, lucky breaks and being in the right place at the right time. After many experiments, I believe that I now understand why some people are luckier than others and that it is possible to become luckier.


To launch my study, I placed advertisements in national newspapers and magazines, asking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me. Over the years, 400 extraordinary men and women volunteered for my research from all walks of life: the youngest is an 18-year-old student, the oldest an 84-year-old retired accountant.


Jessica, a 42-year-old forensic scientist, is typical of the lucky group. As she explained: "I have my dream job, two wonderful children and a great guy whom I love very much. It's amazing; when I look back at my life, I realise I have been lucky in just about every area."


In contrast, Carolyn, a 34-year-old care assistant, is typical of the unlucky group. She is accident-prone. In one week, she twisted her ankle in a pothole, injured her back in another fall and reversed her car into a tree during a driving lesson. She was also unlucky in love and felt she was always in the wrong place at the wrong time.


Over the years, I interviewed these volunteers, asked them to complete diaries, questionnaires and intelligence tests, and invited them to participate in experiments. The findings have revealed that although unlucky people have almost no insight into the real causes of their good and bad luck, their thoughts and behaviour are responsible for much of their fortune.

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