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看平凡兄文《同居不需要理由-婚姻法也奈我不得》有感

作者：jjsummer95 於 2010-6-26 04:30 發表於最熱鬧的華人社交網路--貝殼村

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平凡兄文《同居不需要理由-婚姻法也奈我不得》

看了后，心裡有一種說不出的感覺。

咱家老爺子就是這樣。自從媽媽過世，老爺子就一個人，他眼睛有青光眼，一支眼已經失明。每次妹妹回去看他，他都是一個人坐在黑洞洞的房子里，把電視開到極大聲，飯也不吃。

為他請了鐘點工，他又把人給攆走了。飯也不吃，身體狀況直線下降，一年之內，幾次進醫院，有兩次是病危。沒辦法，我們開始給他撮合后老伴。正好，媽媽的一個朋友給介紹了一個。兩個人不結婚，就搬在一起。

在這之前，他把該分的都分了。。都掛在兒女的名下，連他住的房子。。在他名下就是工資。。所有的花銷都由他支付，每月還給老阿姨幾百塊錢。。他過得開心，老阿姨還很厚道。。咱也就樂得清閑了。。

回復 snortbsd 2010-6-26 04:39: well, i think it is the old man's right to arrange his own life, as long as he is happy) i personally i ddon't want one penny from my parents (if they ever have something left, in deed i send them money periodically).

we came here naked, we can't bring anything with us when we leave. why bother...

回復 jjsummer95 2010-6-26 04:46: snortbsd: well, i think it is the old man's right to arrange his own life, as long as he is happy) i personally i ddon't want one penny from my parents (if the
just updated. Please go back to read it again..

回復 ww_719 2010-6-26 05:15: 你家那個阿姨算厚道...其實許多阿姨跟老頭子過了,多少好是希望也有依靠,有點收入的...所以才會與子女有爭議...有的阿姨看見老頭把什麼都給子女分了,自己一點依靠都沒有了,也不願意了.因為沒有了安全感,..哈哈..

回復平凡往事 2010-6-26 05:31: ww_719: 你家那個阿姨算厚道...其實許多阿姨跟老頭子過了,多少好是希望也有依靠,有點收入的...所以才會與子女有爭議...有的阿姨看見老頭把什麼都給子女分了,自己一點依靠
歌劇情況不同，矛盾也不同。

回復 snortbsd 2010-6-26 06:32: jjsummer95: just updated. Please go back to read it again..
i didn't mean you.

just in general. so many fights, family issues because of the situations like that. americans also have this kind of problem; but laws here are very mature and so detailed, that just a bit less hassles than those in china. laws for this kind of situations in china are very vague, one can interpret those laws in either way...