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- 回復 borninheaven
- 金陵客: please be respected and respect others. It looks like you look down up people from mainland China? en?並非看低大陸. 是大陸社會笑貧不笑娼, 很多暴發的為富不仁. 加上法律偏富, 任何事, 只要關係加點小錢就擺平了. 所以, 人有時對保姆等下人不敬. 可能下人一詞讓你反感. 實際上沒有絕對的平等, 但要尊重. 善待下人的意思是如果您在上更要尊重別人.
- 回復 金陵客
- borninheaven: 並非看低大陸. 是大陸社會笑貧不笑娼, 很多暴發的為富不仁. 加上法律偏富, 任何事, 只要關係加點小錢就擺平了. 所以, 人有時對保姆等下人不敬. 可能下人一詞讓你Well. It takes time. Great changes have been taken in China since 1978. Some of your points maybe right, but I still can't agree with you on your divide different level of people. Anyway, you can think as you think. I only hope you can open your eyes and take every aspect into consideration. Good luck.
- 回復 borninheaven
- 金陵客: Well. It takes time. Great changes have been taken in China since 1978. Some of your points maybe right, but I still can't agree with you on yourYes, I agree with you. It takes time to develop, and some words may offense people too. In fact, I was a "下人" before. But I never look down myself. Luckily no one looks me down neither.
- 回復 金陵客
- borninheaven: Yes, I agree with you. It takes time to develop, and some words may offense people too. In fact, I was a "下人" before. But I never look dogood for you. Wish you success!
- 回復 ww_719
- 現在北京的保姆那就是姑奶奶...挑肥撿瘦,一個月給RMB1000都嫌少,然後經常性發生的事是,一小區的保姆們一起在某一日子罷工,要求增加工資...感覺RMB1000還少...另外就是到春節等節假日突然請辭,弄的雇傭的家庭成員措手不及...
現在的保姆跟一開始有保姆時候大不一樣,特別是在BJ...整個就是賣方市場,你得求她們...就怕姑奶奶哪天不高興....哈哈哈哈...
- 回復 tuotuosimon
- 現實生活中，生活時間長了，矛盾就有了
- 回復 Lawler
- ww_719: 現在北京的保姆那就是姑奶奶...挑肥撿瘦,一個月給RMB1000都嫌少,然後經常性發生的事是,一小區的保姆們一起在某一日子罷工,要求增加工資...感覺RMB1000還少...另你說的是事實。這表妹如不搞兼職，可能不會這麼快辭職。有了比較，在退休老師那裡受到了尊重。
現在的保姆精明了，甚至不講理了，但寧可人負我 切莫我負人仍應是做人的準則之一。
- 回復 ww_719
- Lawler: 你說的是事實。這表妹如不搞兼職，可能不會這麼快辭職。有了比較，在退休老師那裡受到了尊重。
現在的保姆精明了，甚至不講理了，但寧可人負我 切莫我負人仍應
我這裡有個部級老幹部(在BJ),雇傭了一個保母,還培養她學習...一邊在他家幹活,一邊學習..出錢讓女孩上夜校...最後一努力考上了北大的成人教育學院....孩子學了本事,老人說,你可以出去找活幹了,去發展了..在老人的幫助下,女孩去了一家事業單位做出納了...不錯吧!!!!