haha, my friend. I was first told to half 「明哲保身」 in States, MA . Then , I found , we need half 「明哲保身」 in China , possibly just one copied action from USA. Maybe In Small cities , both in States, China, better.
20 yrs ago, I did once as "fake superman" in Guanzhou to protect one girl with one old man . Now I will need think over while facing similar case in that I have two kids , both in China and States. I am now wrong?