If you can pay me for my worth, I will ...
If we cannot strike a deal, I will ...
There will be a lot of incompatibilities between she and Vivi. They may not have the wisdom to resolve their conflict. They may not have the will to resolve their conflict. They may not have the willingness to resolve their conflict.
Their conflict management skills may not just be there.
The end results: It is better not to marry. What for if the marriage cannot last long? There are too many powerful interests involved here.