any tip for Cruise?

想開點,...真真好的很少,大多數是在混. 現在女人在許多地方比男人聰明.

thanks 空手!

pray as much as possible released me very much, so I started to learn why believe in God and he can give you peace!  thanks god!

God may give you peace, but it won't change anything!

你通過禱告學到的只是容忍而已，而不是改變現實。問題是：當你經過禱告，內心得到了平安之後，你是否還能夠容忍「she will spend only little time to do a serious study over the education system here for your daughter?」and 「your daughter will be severely affect in many ways... by parent's sillyness. 」？

我們在聽分享時，經常聽到這樣的故事，那就是某人經過幾年乃至幾十年的禱告，結果使某人或某事得到了改變。但他們沒有說，或不想說的是，還有更多的人或事，一直到禱告的人離開人世，也沒有得到任何改變。。。這是事實。

我是一個不討人喜歡的人，因為我比較喜歡講實話。這是性格所致，也不想改變。。。

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說真話好呀,至少我喜歡,...i have two advices here, (1) the biggest enemy is yourself, (2) you are the only one can help you out.

I don't like pray as well, which does not change any thing.

MARRIAGE的話題, 我不想討論...

對不起啊.....

家家都有本難念的經....... 所以我也不例外...

這是一個令人痛苦的話題，你可以選擇迴避討論這個問題，但這個問題始終在那裡擺著。

chickenrun8：「but I really would like to discuss with all of you here about relationships (within the marriage).」

我是應邀說出我的內心感受。。。

別跑題呀,要不JAMES2000開個題,只是對事,I KNOW IT IS A BIG ISSUE IN AUSTRALIA WITH THE SAME BACKGROUND.

你真的開個專欄，恐怕人都嚇跑了。人就是這樣，即興發揮可以，但一上檯面，都羞羞答答起來了，赫赫。。。

呵呵............ 可能我就是第一個嚇跑的人啦.....

我也要嚇跑的,...還是在這裡掛'羊頭賣狗肉好','悄悄地進村,打槍的不要'. 好,說實話,男的,想CHICKENRUN8這樣的,可以也可以說算上我這樣的,很難,特別是在澳大利亞.這可不是在國內,國內場面上混的開的,事業上可謂成功人士的,家裡那位都很懂得要睜一隻眼閉一隻眼,要不然很難造就'家中紅旗不倒,外面彩旗飄飄'的大好局面. 在澳洲,就象JAMES2000以前說的,男人是離不起的,一離差不多就要從頭再來過.愛不愛是一回事,有沒有勇氣從新來過又是一回事,咱們姑且什麼感情都別提.

個有個的說法吧...

我還以為.. 男人要再喜歡上別人是件容易的事呢..

喜歡上別人很容易,因為好女人也是很多的,...但真真有勇氣走出去,又是另外一回事了.

《喜歡上別人很容易...但真真有勇氣走出去,又是另外一回事了. 》

所以就「悄悄地進村,悄悄地打槍」？赫赫。。。[;821]

「悄悄地進村,悄悄地打槍」？

what do you mean?

別聽JAMES2000瞎說,以前國內有個電影'地道戰'里的話,'悄悄的進村,打槍的不要',就是說要悄悄的不要驚動土八路.

就象我們這裡的走題,走的家也不認識了,不是悄悄地在這裡說,一般人還真是不知道我們在這裡說什麼.

哈哈,思想活躍是好的,可跑題也跑的太遠了,...

我的天啊.....

沒看這部系還真不懂JAMES2000在說啥...

差點想歪去啦... 要真想太遠了.... [;821]  [;821]

不過JAMES2000的意思我也是知道滴,...話說回來,澳洲的生活不是象國內那樣難,但工作還是很SOLID,在亞洲國家中常見的那種油頭粉面西裝筆挺的男人是不多的,生活略有成就的人,都是ANOTHER DAY, ANOTHER DOLLAR這麼做出來的,是根本沒時間在女人堆里混的.

而有手好閑的爛崽,也是不可能有什麼人會看上這些爛崽的.

according to the bible, we got freedom of choice before we choose to  marry, afterwards freedom is locked away, it is cost of your choice, if you cannot take it, you should not go into it. why? it is cost too much with out even talking about the money.  in particular, if you have kid already!  when they grow up, they will find their lover or lover's family will reject her or him just because they did not have a healthy family...  statisticly, it will bring such thing forward into next generation. that is why God says in bible very clearly that it will affect us 3-4 generation... please do not consider to divorce.... it is not an option for the sake of our children...

悄悄地進村,悄悄地打槍?

STD is waiting for you and your family sure, it is not worth the trouble. therefore there a aussie expert in 'sex' say in front of chinese at shanghai during a seminar: ' mastbation means the man love and take the responsibility of family!'.

Baby,

個有個的說法吧...

我還以為.. 男人要再喜歡上別人是件容易的事呢..

I should say it may applys for 18 to 25, those young and red headed, maybe few of yin yang not balanced in early forties..

I had plenty of girlfriends before I got married 16 years ago, they all good girls.. however we just cannot continure because o f these or that cause... in the process of pick and choose.

If I can started again, I would be a christian first and find a sister within.

Baby why do you scared to talk about your relationship?  is that troubled some too?