what will you do under this situation?

Goood idea! I am jealous of you ! How come you are so knowledgeable? ha, ha.... No wonder you are in level 15. anyway you are so helpful, I am very appreciative for what you have recommened.

Sorry, Guys, with time going on, I changed some opinions to the company, at the same time, the manager changed his attitude to me, too. I am thinking whether I need to appeal them or not.

so the situation is improving and you are dropping the ideas of personally going to press charge against them. do i understand you correctly?

You are right, at least not now I'll appeal them.

Thinking and asking for help is the first step to success.

i think it's a good idea. i know a person who always does this that when not sure, will ask around to get advices and better, ideas. it is also a kind of openess, a preliminary for friend making. appreciable.

You can speak fluent English and have a tertiary education qualification, I reckon you should be able to stand on your own two feet to land yourself a very decent job in Canada. Why don't you think of being a teacher in some private schools?

Thanks for encouraging me. Actually I  often think about picking up my teaching background. Do you think I am qualify for that? Anyway I think I will give myself a try. People never know before they try, do they?

mingyu, i think you should be qualified. you have years of experience in teaching science in a middle school. and you speak English fluently. as far as i can see it, you will be perfect if you could pay more attention to grammar and accuracy. i have learned that when English is used as a tool for communications, the standard will be lifted up a bit. people around you will tend to have a higher expectation on you. but i think it is just a matter of time you will get used to the new environment and be able to handle the matters well. you are a social learner, aren't you?

Thanks for the compliments. Actually I know nothing about interpersonal communications. I remember one friend of mine in our current company said to me one day, " you waste working for 6 yrs for nothing, Because  you  don't know how to deal with the issue among people's relationship-because you are so honest and always offend "bad" people... however, you can find an  excuse for yourself because of  the previous work environment-school. this kind of environment is much simpler..." which made me dumb.

mingyu, i think you can learn from the younger generation, in a sense. what i mean here is that as you may have observed, the kids after attending the "schools" learn to say "this is mine and that is yours." i deem it is very important to learn these basic rules of the "jungle world". another saying is "mind (only) my own business". once you have [U]define[/U]d a territory and begin to [U]defend[/U] it, other "kids" will watch and learn not to cross the lines next time. that's it.

Thanks. I think I  have already  been benefited  from it.

hehehe, I reckon adelyn is teaching you some "bad" stuff. hehehe. yeah, "Jungle law"....people-skill is extremely vital for living in a country like Canada. In other words, sometimes, you have to bullshit a lot to win someone's approval or so-called support. No matter what, you should always keep a smiling face and never raise your voice, otherwise even if you are right, you have lost your game.

No matter what, you should always keep a smiling face and never raise your voice, otherwise even if you are right, you have lost your game.  

Thanks for the good sugggestion.