口粗不一定人壞.i work in building site, i hear such a word every day, it is ok for me. if you stay with army, you would not suprise about this word because you will find out every words start with 'fucking'. then i fell this word just similar to 'very'.for example, if you very love this country, you can say' i am fucking love this country'. just think it is slang or plan english.
Fair enough and agree what you said but please think this
If someone is pretending to be a decent gentleman, and uses such slang, would you think it is comfortable? If you tell me he is a fucking building worker or an army soldier, i can understand absolutely. So, what is wrong if other building workers use same words to him then ? You are in building industry, you should know better. Not only Australian building worker are using nasty words or called slangs, same group of people use same kind of salng everywhere in the world. If you are in China and are doing a buiding site in China, sure you will hear the same kind of slangs. Would you allow them to use those slangs here too ? Why not ? As you said there is nothing to do with whether they are good people or not. But here the way you treat seems different. You allow one to "fuck" and not allow the other to "fuck". Is that right ?
haha, ozone, I understand that, you are right. so many thing you need to think situation,in some situation, be rough and be tough is better, in some situation, be nice be gentle is better.
right, always make more room for yourself in different situation, otherwise, you just get fucked. I had so many lessones when I am young. In some situation, only one word can bring people together and build trust once your working with others.