I married an American! It's like living in hell. Many things you think it's not a big deal and he thinks like a huge deal. The different backgroud and culture could never make the marriage happy. I have met many people who married American people and 90% of them having the same problem. When they first met you, they felt you were charming, cute and different. But once the fresh and curious were gone, your talking loud, speaking when you mouthful, coughing without covering your mouth, answering the phones when they were around, leave the table without saying an "excuse me", not to say "thank you" enough, not to kiss them while you were at the middle of something and they were waling in from work....many many things started to become unacceptable. Therefore, period, not to marry American people is the smartest thing to do. You will never fit in their culture and living habits. Unless you are "ABC": American Born Chinese". |