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whp888 發表於 2006-5-1 08:32 | 只看該作者 回帖獎勵 |倒序瀏覽 |閱讀模式
等待中的異國情緣
                        ――還需等待多久?
這是一位美麗善良誠實可愛的姑娘,來自山城重慶,見面時候是2003年的3月份,那時我正準備離開海灣這塊傷心地,所以與她並不很熟識,她那一襲長發下清秀嬌小的面容就是我的最初印象……
    2005年12月4日,這是我第3次踏上曾經讓我傷心失落,也讓我憧憬夢想的這塊土地,3年來,周邊景色依舊,認識的人也沒什麼變化,時間似乎停滯了…
    總發誓不需繼續期待沙漠綠洲中的春天了,但世事總是這麼奇怪,不去想它,不願意觸及它,它偏又成了現實,來來往往的日子,錯過了很多,夏威儀的海灘,巴拿馬的運河,哥倫比亞的雨林,一個一個從夢中走來,也終成為一個個遙遠的過去。很久很久了,當初的激情已經化作了沉寂,生存的現實冰冷地讓人痛心,有時候默默凝視著游標處跳動著的「浮萍飄荷」的網名,我就忍不住傷感起來,那天晚上的一席長談讓我沉思良久,也更加體味到了「問世間情為何物,直教人生死相許」的些須真義。
    在敘述這位來自友好國家(PAKINSTAN)的英俊的,事業小成,已屆而立之年的Safeer前,我記起了有這麼一段話:快樂要有悲傷作陪,雨過應該就有天晴。如果雨後還是雨,如果憂傷之後還是憂傷.請讓我們從容面對這離別之後的離別。 微笑地去尋找一個不可能出現的你!
    是啊,曾經的經歷是值得紀念的,記住該記住的,忘記該忘記的,改變能改變的,接受不能改變的。能沖刷一切的除了眼淚,就是時間,然而有時候眼淚卻令人不能自拔而愈發思念。以時間來推移感情,時間越長卻不能沖淡,反而愈久彌堅。
回到原先的地方繼續自己原先的職業似乎是改不了的宿命。所以我還是回來了,再次與我的好友Safeer相見的那晚,我被他的故事感動了,這麼一份異國情緣實在是沉重的讓人窒息,讓人心碎。
    那是我第一次離開海灣后的幾個月,Safeer與「明」開始了他們的感情之旅,一個是溫文恭良,清秀可人的中國女孩,一個是英俊帥氣,事業有成的大小夥子,我無法形容他在敘述那段為期不多的甜美日子的神采飛揚,幸福陶醉的樣子,只有一點,我能明白,他為能相識「明」,與「明」相愛而喜悅,而倍感知足。UAE阿來因是一個難得的綠洲。曾幾何,他們在深夜12點后駕駛著小車徜徉在那片綠蔭中。也曾幾何,他們在附近半山腰的溫泉小溪中,享受雙腳給熱水燙紅的興奮和不小心摔倒在溫水中的尷尬和愜意。曾幾何,在DUBAI姐妹樓吃火鍋的屢次洋相盡出……曾幾何,他在「久美拉」她工作的單位門口,徹夜等候……
    但是2004年初,這一切在談及婚嫁,她回國探望母親后,變的模糊起來,本來每日的越洋電話日漸稀少,每周到每月,然後徹底失去了音信,那段日子,他夜夜失眠,礙於溝通的困難,每次打往她母親家的電話,都沒能得到任何有價值的信息。隨著日子的一天天流逝,他並沒有放棄對聯繫上「明」的信心,3個月後,他幻想著她已經回到了DUBAI,每個星期,他都要驅車前往「久美拉」她曾經工作的地方,從深夜一直等到天明,然後拖著疲憊的身軀回到他自己的商鋪繼續新的一天的工作。
    這樣過了一年多,這期間,他拒絕了其家人為其在巴基斯坦國內找到的6位姑娘,承受了其家族莫大的壓力。
    時間總是在等待中飛速流失,轉瞬間2006年春節到了,藉助春節問候的機會我接受他的委託向「明」的母親家去了電話,可惜遺憾的是從她母親那得到還是那一聲禮貌的笑聲回應,事情似乎幾近絕望了,2月前,Safeer從一諳熟英文的自稱是「明」兄長的男孩那裡收到一封簡訊(050-210081X),讓Safeer耐心等待,或許能得到「明」的消息,但是遺憾的是2個月後,得到的是一句:「停止追求她是最好的選擇」。雖然最終未能聯繫到「明」,但是簡訊來往中,我們都捕捉到了隱藏在背後的信息,「明」已經回到了DUBAI,但卻有意逃避著什麼……
    就在昨天,他又一次和我一起驅車到了「久美拉」那個他總是去的地方,問到他的打算,Safeer鄭重地說:「我會一直等待下去,直到「明」親口告訴我,她已經結婚,或者她不再接受我了,如果是因為其他原因,無論發生了什麼,我都能接受,無論什麼我都不會改變對她的追求……」
     也許長久的等待和期盼
     就是為了這濃濃的兩情相望
     最初的夢想 已隨歲月流逝
     然而對美好生活的嚮往
     追求,無止境的追求
     人生因追求而充滿希望
     生活因滿足而充滿快樂
     可是他的追求何時是盡頭呢?
   面對著他的真情告白,我該說些什麼呢,什麼話在此時都是多餘的,我想,愛情是雙方面的事情,要說,也只有一句,「祝天下有情人終成眷屬」。
                                         2006年5月1日星期一   浮萍飄荷
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蝸牛的家 發表於 2006-5-2 09:14 | 只看該作者
有時候,很多等待是無價值的……

但是,若不等待,如何知道它是有價值或是無價值的呢?

所以,我說等待是一種很奇怪的感覺――象雞肋……


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 樓主| whp888 發表於 2006-5-3 05:22 | 只看該作者

love in waiting,英文版的,請網友指正!

love in waiting
                            ----How long should he waiting more?

Ming is a pretty, honest, likable girl,who is from Chongqing city,China.The first meeting was at March-2003,that time I just preparing for leave gulf. Therefore I can』t know her very well, her delicate facial features and that long hair is my initial impression…

On 4-Dec,2006, this is my 3rd time to visit this area where let me feel sadly and also let me had a nice dream. For 3 years, the peripheral scenery same as before, the human also did not change more, time like freezing……

Always pledged not to continue anticipate the spring at oasis in desert. Humans affairs always strange,you don』t want to think it, not willing to touch it, it has become the reality unfortunately.A lot of things is missed in the past days, beach of Howee, Panama's canal, Colombia's rain forest,came to truth from dreams one by one,and walked into elapse. Long long time, the initial fervor already changed to quietness, the ice-cold survival reality let me distressed. Sometimes stared at the nickname」fupingpiaohe」 silently on the computer,I feel heart breaking. The long-talking at that night let me ponder deeply,and was awared the implication of 「What the sentiment is?-It let you pay put all of your life…」

Before relate the story about this talented, handsome boy」Safeer」 who from our friendly state(pakinstan),I have recalled this words as follows: grief is the companion of happiness,sunshine wil be come after rain, if rain by rain,grief by grief,let us face the leaving after leaving calmly,smile will find you!

Well, experience is worth commemorating, remembered should remember, forgot should forget, changed should change, accepted that cannot changed.All the things will be diluted by tear and time,but sometimes tear will prompt the misses,time will strengthen the sentiment more.

Return the place to continue original occupation is my fate,so I came back.The meeting of that night, I was emotionalized with his story.The love is let me suffocate,let me heartache…

After several months since I left gulf,Safeer and 「Ming」 started their travel of sentiment. One is a polite, delicate,chinese girl, one is a talented, successful, boy. I can』t describe his happiness when he is drily in love in the short of the delightful days.I understand that time is his great days such like flower blooming in the sunbeam. Alain is a rare oasis,many times they drove car to range over that green shade after 24pm,many times they enjoyed the comfort and exciting for scalding red the feet,enjoyed the awkwardness and satisfaction for fall down to the lukewarm water of the hot spring at halfway up the mountainside.Many times enjoyed the happiness for the awkward behavior when making the chafing dish food in twins tower in Dubai… Many times he waited for her all the night in front of her company』s gate......

At the beginning of 2004,they prepare for marriage.But after she went back to China to visit her mother and relationship,all the things turn to blurs.The daily transoceanic telephone is reduced day by day, then has lost the news thoroughly. Those days he always sleepless.He can』t obtain any valuable information from her mother because of obstructs in the communication. Even then,he didn』t give up the confidence to contact 「Ming」 again. After 3months, he was fantasizing she already returned to DUBAI. Each week, he went to that place which she worked before by his car,and waited till the dawn from the night continuously. Then return his own store to continue the new day』s work.

More than one year past, this period of time he has rejected 6 pakinstani girls from his family member recommendation under the huge pressure.

Time always rapidly drains in the waiting, 2006』s Spring Festival was coming, I made a call to her mother,nothing can obtain but a politeness response,it is like despairing. But 2months ago,Safeer has received a SMS from her 「brother」,the message required he should be patience. After 2months, it is regretful that the answer is: 「forget her is your best choice!」. Though he can』t contact her,but we all caught the hidden information: 「Ming」 was stayed in Dubai,but intended to evade something actually... ...

Just yesterday,we went to 「Jemeirah」 again, inquire his plan, Safeer said:」 I will waiting, until she tell me directly―she was already married, or she didn』t accepted me again. Any others reasons,whatever is happened, I can accepted her unconditionally,I will insist on my appetition……」

Perhaps long-time waiting and hopes
Is for the thick sentiments between you and me
initial dream passed along with the years
long for the blissful life
Pursue, without limits pursue
life fills the hope because of pursues
life fills joyfully because of satisfies
But how long should he waiting more?

For his words,how can I say?what can I say? Love is for 2sides, 「wishes all the dream will come to true!」 is only.
                                                Dr.warrens,1-May,2006
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 樓主| whp888 發表於 2006-5-3 05:25 | 只看該作者
是啊,感同身受...
就是不知道SAFEER為什麼如此痴情?
有時候學會放棄比盲目堅持應該更合適一些,個人以為...
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