該不該說謊: 第一張罰票

第一張罰票　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　

，「警察都沒出庭，你怎麼倒是輸了？你就應該說燈是綠色的嘛。」「什麼？講真話？一句真話值一百三十元呀！」

也許同事是對的，我今天做了個不願講假話的大傻瓜。德國哲學家尼采（Ｆｒｉｅｄｒｉｃｈ　Ｎｉｅｔｚｓｃｈｅ）早就說過，「人必須撒謊，沒有這些有意義的謊言，人是不可能生活下去的。」

I don't know whether I should sympathize with you in your sufferings or not. However; I know one thing you are right, that is -you lead  your life with relief , even though you paid 130 US dollars for that. I knew you were undeserved that, after all, It's not your fault, however, you are very honest.

Before I have the same feelings as most people, "人必須撒謊，沒有這些有意義的謊言，人是不可能生活下去的". But I don't know from when, I changed my mind. I can't lie and I won't lie forever. I believe more and more are lying, if this situation keeps going, People will live a very tiring life, and we don't know whhat is true and what is false, we don't know who we should believe. Just speak out the truth, you don't need to disguise anything, then everyone lives in an easy life. How wonderful. Actually, the nature of human being is true and virtuous... only does the evil lead the change. Friends, let's unite together, time to fight with the evil.

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很多人根本不懂撒謊和小偷兒究竟有什麼必然聯繫", 有時侯連大人 也未必懂得這個聯繫,尤其在中國那種以應試為主的教育體制中, 很多人都是接受這種教育出來的...

我讀過一個故事: 在中國一個小城市裡,有一個上初一的小孩, 我們姑且叫他小明吧.他與媽媽生活在一起,媽媽也就是一個普通工人,但是媽媽還是盡自己的能力送他到一個重點中學去讀書.這所學校都是高幹子弟, 有一天, 小明告訴他媽媽學校收補課費,要300 元, 小明的媽媽儘管生活不是很富裕, 但是她一
聽到補課,二話沒說,就趕緊給小明300元. 其實學校根本沒有收補課費,你猜小明用這錢幹嗎? 他用來請
出租司機,並在同學面前炫耀說, "那是他的專職司機." 同學們都用羨慕的眼光望著他. 好神氣... 不難想象小明為了在同學面前繼續"炫耀"他家富有,他還會繼續"撒更大的謊"...

我們在這兒姑且不評小明怎麼怎麼不好,但是有一點是小明媽媽縱容了她, 她為什麼不想一想學校收錢都會有通知的,為什麼她沒收到通知就"大方" 地給錢了, 所以這種方式制定會有這種情況發生, 家長們, 什麼事都多想一想,多與老師溝通,多試著與你的孩子交流, 去了解他的心,尤其是當他很小的時候,讓他
時時刻刻感覺到你是愛他的,並為他著想的,這樣一來, 你的孩子一定差不了...
真的,育兒不需專長,但你一定要有一顆正確的愛心作指導,什麼該做,什麼該說... 都要有一定的度.

其實"撒謊" 真的是一種罪過, 如果你能養成誠實不撒謊的好習慣,你會活得很輕鬆. 因為你不用費盡心機去掩飾你自己,何況自圓其說,有時弄不好就"漏餡"了.

People have to tell lies------there are two types of lies ------1. harmful or bad lie ------2. beneficial or good lie

Everyday we are all more or less telling each other lies.

Maybe you are right. But from now, I will try my best to reduce the times of telling both lies, especially the first one.