要有價值體系和做事標準

要有價值體系和做事標準  It needs value system and standards of work

不同國家地區每一個社會都有它自己的價值觀 Every society in different countries and regions has its own values
不同國家地區每一個社會都有它自己的價值觀，中國社會比較注重集體主義，我們從小被教育互相幫助，有東西就要分享，要聽黨的話. 這樣子的結果就是，凡有事情就是群眾運動. 比如穿衣服，以前一式的蘭卡其中山裝，以前中蘇友好一定打倒美帝，女孩子頭髮要麼梳辮子，要麼短頭髮，沒有那麼多的花樣. 現在好許多，但是有些基本價值全社會共同擁有，比如重男輕女，比如婚姻，男生都是找年輕小情人。比如哈韓國明星，奶油小鮮肉. 有一陣子全中國都去吃香辣蟹，鴛鴦火鍋，反正就是一窩蜂，大家都去追求同一件事物. 這個能量是很大的，對於商品投中了市場的商家那是心花怒放的,因為他一下子就可以賺巨額利潤。記得我有一次在國內一個大城市， 因為時差我晚上睡不著，半夜醒來在賓館高層拉開窗帘朝下看,從凌晨一點到四點，街上空無一人，不是騙人，真的是空無一人.要知道這是個大城市啊，有上千萬的人，晚上至少會有人因有些什麼特殊情況出來吧？在美國這麼住得稀疏的地方，高速路上整天都是有車的，我覺得中國有時候一刀切起來是很恐怖的，可是這個世界是充滿varieties的呀. 歐美的社會，人跟人之間沒有像大陸這樣子的緊密，也許缺少人看管，也許個人的自由度大，所以個人空間比較大。人有各種生活形態，所以以我看來稀奇古怪的人比較多，就連性別都可以四五種，戀愛也可以各種各樣形態. 中國社會不太容忍這樣，它一定要你找個人穩定下來，當然這是好事兒。我覺得現在的智能控制程序已經到了非常深入的地步，但是控制程序後面的決策是以決策者的文化價值做依據的.於是我就在想，比如說我在國內的車禍，前一陣子走馬燈似地在我面前換男人，我回國居然來月經，地鐵裡邊的要飯母女，南昌賓館前門的賣蓮子女士，還有去歐洲俄國，土耳其旅行那些有加床的房間，跳肚皮舞的客人表演， 等等，很像是由中國人的價值出發的安排. 我覺得很多事是多此一舉，是在騷擾我的生活. 中國人做事情有其的價值和行為準則，比如大家一起吃飯，最後一定要搶著付錢，外國人會覺得很奇怪的. 中國有錢人養二奶，還為他們置產，外國人也很奇怪的. 美國人也有習以為常的做事方式，比如警察動不動就開槍打死人，民眾沒幾個人抱怨，中國人是絕對想不通的. 比如在美國上學，家長不會對老師賄賂，這很正常的，而中國人一定要向老師表示些什麼. 但是就業升職亞洲人被歧視，在這邊也是很正常的.歐洲人做事很有派頭的，罵人是繞著彎子的，私底下誰都不買誰的帳. 親愛的主席，88，你們後面的T & B出來走江湖，有沒有先去把別人的那一套價值觀搞清楚？很多事情需要人生閱歷和經驗積累的. 為什麼你們要用那麼年輕的人，他們可以是執行者，但他們絕對不能做決策者，很多時候他們做決定是缺少人性的，不進人家的心坎的，而且做事情不先問別人的，難道你們替別人決定人生嗎？誰給你們這樣的權力？所以T&B知道親愛的主席，88，這些老年人不可以取代的地位嗎？可你們逼他們「檸檬」. 這個世界老老少少，各色人等，都在這個世界佔有一個位置，你們後面的T & B的價值觀，就只看重顏值，太膚淺了.這個社會有各種職業，每一個都可有出彩的人生，你們後面T & B，腦子進水接受不了這些. 憑這樣子的素質和能力想做世界的統治者，就像Jackie來指揮我那樣，我們不需要！

Each society in different countries and regions has its own values. Chinese society pays more attention to collectivism. We have been educated to help each other since we were young. We have to share things and listen to the party. The result is that everything is a mass movement. . For example, wearing clothes, blue khaki tunic suits in previous styles, the Sino-Soviet friendship must have defeated the American emperor. Girls』 hair was either braided or short, and there were not so many tricks. Now it』s much better, but some basic values are shared by the whole society. Such as patriarchy, such as marriage that boys are looking for young lovers. For example, a Korean star, handsome boys. For a while, all of China went to eat spicy crab and mandarin duck hot pot. Anyway, it was a swarm of people. Everyone was pursuing the same thing. This energy is great. The merchants whose products have hit the market are ecstatic, because they can make huge profits right away. I remembered once in a big city in China, I couldn』t fall asleep at night because of jet lag. I woke up in the middle of the night and opened the curtains on the upper floors of the hotel to look downward. No one. You know that this is a big city with tens of millions of people. At least someone will come out at night because of some special circumstances, right? In a sparsely populated place like the United States, there are cars on highways all day long. I think China is sometimes terrifying to just cut  everything across the board, but the world is full of varieties. In European and American societies, there is no relationship between people. It's not as close as the mainland, maybe it lacks people to look after it, and maybe the individual has a lot of freedom, so the personal space is relatively large. People have a variety of life styles, so in my opinion, there are more weird people here. Even the gender can be four or five types, and love can also be in various forms. Chinese society does not tolerate this, you must  find someone to stabilize, of course this is a good thing. I think that the current intelligent control program has reached a very deep stage, but the decision behind the control program is based on the cultural value of the decision maker. So I am thinking, for example, the domestic car accident, just like a merry-go-around changing men in front of me. I actually had menstruation when I returned to China, mother and daughter in the subway begging, the lady selling lotus seeds at the front gate of Nanchang Hotel, and those rooms with extra beds when we traveled to Europe, Russia and Turkey, and guests performing belly dancing, etc.. It's like an arrangement based on the value of the Chinese. I think many things are unnecessary and are harassing my life. Chinese people have their own values and codes of conduct in doing things. For example, if Chinese people dine together, they must rush to pay in the end. Foreigners will find it strange. Wealthy Chinese raise mistresses and buy properties for them. Foreigners also find it strange. Americans also have ways of doing things that they take for granted. For example, the police shoot and kill people at every turn. Few people complain. The Chinese absolutely won』t accept it. For example, when going to school in the United States, parents will not bribe teachers. This is normal, and Chinese people must give their teachers something. However, it』s normal for Asians to be discriminated against in employment and promotion here. Europeans are very stylish, and they are not direct to scold others. In private, no one will buy it. Dear Chairman, 88, the T & B behind you will come out to the world, did they first figure out the value system of others? Many things require life experience and accumulation of experience. Why do you use such young people? They can be executors, but they can never be decision makers. Many times they make decisions without humanity and do not enter the hearts of others, and they do not ask others first. Do they decide  life for others? Who gives them such power? So T&B knows that Dear Chairman, 88, these old people can't be replaced? But they force you to "lemon". (unaware) This world, old and young, people of all colors, all occupy a place in this world. The values of T & B behind you only value beauty, which is too superficial. This society has various occupations, each one can have a brilliant life. T & B behind you, their brains can't accept this. With such qualities and abilities, they want to be the ruler of the world, just like Jackie commanding me, we don't need that!