人生像顏色盤有各種顏色

Nov 16, 2017 at 10:43 PM
人的一生就像顏色盤一樣的會有各種色彩,可以一點一點把顏色都豐富起來  People's life will have a variety of colors just like the color wheel, you can enrich the colors little by little
親愛的主席，88，不知道為什麼，每天早上Jackie都是脾氣不好！ 也許她睡得不夠，也許早上每次都有test需要準備. 她從小就是這個脾氣，喜歡作態，除非睡足了，太陽照著屁股了，她才高高興興地爬起來！今天早上我開車送她上學，好不容易逮到機會教育她，讓她多花點心思記著那些名人們，怎麼你們每次都在電話那端聽了，甚至把Steven 也逼了出來了. 因為她把一天絕大部分時間都用在學校的事情上，就她這個年紀，那是不行的.人的一生就像顏色盤一樣的會有各種色彩，她現在賴以與你們和其他領袖精英們交流的社交本領，大多數都不是在學校學的.我覺得她有點太看重學校的成績了. 我問她為什麼？因為要考大學呀！可是考大學以後有漫長的人生要過，我不能一直陪著她或圍著她轉呀。她得學會生存的本領，照顧自己的本領，社交的本領，愛人和接受愛的本領，理財的本領，等等. 因為這是人生必須的，而做家庭作業只是academic的本領. 也許在她年輕的時候，某些顏色比較佔主導地位，但是一點一點要把別的顏色都豐富起來，以後她的人生才多姿多彩的. 比如說她不能一直在外買飯吃，對胃和健康不好啊。她會做菜，以後也是招待親朋，維持友情和持家的本領啊.這邊很多工科男生不知道怎麼樣談戀愛，喜歡女孩子就發一張性愛照片「想來嗎？」，連調情都不會,這怎麼建立感情？每天聽她在房間里嘻嘻哈哈，從她說話的口氣可以判斷出是不是在跟你們交流.一個會逗笑又性格調皮的女孩子，是知道怎麼樣討人歡心。我只是怕她以後長大，因為習慣跟你們和那些能說會道的人交流，她太會說了，一個男孩子怕滿足不了她呢，那她就開沙龍做主持！Steven出來阻止我，因為他們的目的不是希望Jackie能夠通過他們促成什麼事. Jackie是小孩沒什麼能量，但是你們有能量，那些人有能量.我是在訓練她怎麼樣了解人。就像動畫電影開始要角色設計一樣，每一個人都有他自己的特性，我希望她能花幾個小時了解人，了解這個人的外貌，性格，家庭背景，生活環境，朋友圈，興趣愛好，平日活動，工作領域，社會價值等等。因為了解了別人就可以尋找共同語言，可以成為朋友。了解這個人的能力和能量，以後有什麼事兒她就可以找他。就算是不找他，看的人多了她就通人性.我希望她用腦子思考，別人之所以成為那樣，他的性格和成功是有原因的。如她知道這個原因，也是更進一步了解了社會和家庭，這讓她通達呢！除了了解人，人性，她也是去了解領袖們所屬的國家，和這些國家的內涵，歷史,文化,傳統, 經濟等等，我帶她出去旅遊不就是為了這個嗎？不明白你們為什麼跳出來阻止我，她有時候見了人，過後連名字都不記得. Steven他們花那麼多精力把人弄過來,只是走馬觀花有啥意思？世界上能有她這樣機會的人不多的，如果以後她會做為這些領袖和精英們服務的事情，她人頭熟了，個性服務，別人也喜歡和信賴她，是不是她就很有優勢？這也是為她自己將來的事業打基礎啊.親愛的主席，88，如果以後有什麼事情要以你們或彭媽媽的名義舉辦的話，Jackie都可以出面做你們代表啊，甚至代表Steven 他們的！

Dear Chairman, 88, I don』t know why, Jackie is grumpy every morning! Maybe she doesn't sleep enough, maybe every morning she needs to prepare for the test. She has this temper since childhood, and likes to unsettle, unless she sleeps for a long time, and the sun shines on the buttocks, then she happily climbs up! I drove her to school this morning, and finally got the opportunity to educate her, let her spend more time thinking about the celebrities。 Why do you listen on the phone every time, even forces Steven out. Because She spends most of the day on school affairs. At her age, that』s not good. A person』s life will have various colors like a color wheel. She now depends on the most of the social skills talking to you and other leaderss which  are not learned at school. I think she values school grades a little too much. I asked her why? Because she has to take a college entrance exam! But after the college entrance examination, she has a long life to live. I can't stay with her or chasing around her. She has to learn to survive, take care of herself, gain social skills, love and accept love skills, financial management skills, etc. Because this is necessary in life, and doing homework is only academic skills. Maybe in her young age at this time, some colors are more dominant, but the other colors have to be enriched bit by bit, and her life would be more colorful in the future. For example, she can』t always buy food outside, which is not good for her stomach and health. Okay. She can cook, and she will also entertain relatives and friends, maintain friendship and housekeeping skills. Many boys in engineering field here don』t know how to date. If they like girls, they will send a sex photo "Want to come?" . How does this build relations? Every day I listen to her giggling in the room. From the tone of her speaking, I can tell whether she is communicating with you. She is a girl who is funny and naughty knows how to please people. I'm just afraid that she will grow up in the future, because she is used to communicating with you and those who are eloquent, she is too good at  talking, a boy can't satisfy her. Then she will open a salon to be a Hostess! Steven came out to stop me because their purpose was not to hope that Jackie could promote anything through them. Jackie is a child with little energy, but you have energy, those people have energy. I am training her how to understand people, just like an animation movie begins to require character design, everyone has his own characteristics. I hope she can spend a few hours understanding the person, understanding the person's appearance, personality, family background, living environment, circle of friends, hobbies, weekday activities, work areas, social values, etc. Because she knows others, she can find a common language and become friends. Understand this person's abilities and energies, she can call him if there is any emergency in the future. Even if she doesn't look for him, she knows human nature when she sees more people. I hope she thinks with her brain. The reason why others become such people is that there is a reason for his character and success. If she knows this reason, she also has a better understanding of society and family, which makes her mature! In addition to understanding people and human nature, she is also to understand the countries to which the leaders belong, and the connotation, history, culture, traditions, economy, etc. of these countries. Isn't it for this purpose that I took her to travel? I don』t understand why you guys jumped out to stop me. She sometimes met people and didn』t even remember their names afterwards. Steven spent so much effort to get people over, but what does it mean to go through? There are not many people in the world who can have opportunities like her. If in the future she will do things for these leaders and elites, she is familiar with them and can do customized  service, others like and trust her. Does she have an advantage? This is also to lay the foundation for her own future career. Dear Chairman, 88, if there is anything to be held in the name of you or Peng mama in the future, Jackie can come forward to be your representative, even for Steven!