小孩子要引導管束不能放縱

Sep 23, 2017 at 2:13 PM
小孩子是要引導的，要樹榜樣的，不好放任的  Children should be guided, set an example, not easy to let go
親愛的主席，88，前天Jackie告訴我說那位義大利的時裝老師看了她的旅行照片，說她挺會配衣服的，尤其是去歐洲，每次衣服都穿得很漂亮，身材也不錯.那都是我給她挑的呀！上個學期為了穿衣服的事，好幾次吵架頭痛欲裂的，那些衣服她不肯穿，說「不上學的時候穿」.於是就讓她去歐洲之前，把那些衣服好好準備起來，去歐洲每天早上都問我穿什麼合適，結果這次旅行下來，歐洲和俄國土耳其，一大堆照片，她告訴我說，你們都說好！ 本來就是，學畫畫的，以前那位公子哥所有衣服都是我配的，現在沒有悅己者，自己沒心思打扮，我看人著裝的眼光可是從來不差的！88，我甚至可以替你做形象設計，想起那一陣子，你老寵愛她，情不自禁站出來替她說話，讓她隨心所欲穿衣服，你贏得了她對你依戀童心，可是我贏得了她的價值判斷信任.還記得那件，你說不要穿因為是印度人穿的白長袖綿衫嗎？連Vera Wang 都喜歡那件棉布的手感，而且這次, Steven 點名挑選那件衣服配蘭花短裙子，要她穿去見那些大咖. 她人小沒有判斷力，也不信任我，要別人一圈說好她才肯相信這是好的，現在她終於滿心歡喜，願意穿那些漂亮衣服啦，還裝模作樣的說她以前不懂時尚.有什麼好吵的，她要學的東西多了，88，請你能不能也支持一下我的工作，給我點贊一下，以後多多盡量教育她說「不要跟媽媽吵，多聽聽媽媽的話，是有道理的」父母之間互相支持，相親相愛，才是對孩子最好的榜樣和愛的教育了，她現在見的大咖多了，因為她跟親愛的主席，88這樣高層有聯繫，所以這些人才來見她的呀，她一沒有專業背景，二沒有財富地位，她有的就是無拘無束的青春和討人喜歡的性格外表吧，會穿衣服是非常非常重要的，我不是專業時裝師，想盡辦法也要讓她穿的得體漂亮，自己學會著裝的. 你看親愛的主席怎麼做的，親愛的主席說他以前就有學時尚設計的，（不學也要編出來說有時尚概念，謝謝親愛的主席支持），那丫小句野孩子一定會心想往之，一定會想在這個領域能夠有所建樹，以後可以在親愛的主席面前嬴得他共鳴稱讚的，不是嗎？小孩子是要引導的，要樹榜樣的，不好放任的，因為他們不懂呀！

Dear Chairman, 88, the day before yesterday Jackie told me that the Italian fashion teacher saw her travel photos and said she knew how to match clothes. Especially when she went to Europe, she wore beautiful clothes every time, and she was also in good shape. That was all I chose for her! In the last semester, we quarreled several times for clothes. I had a terrible headache. She refused to wear those clothes and said, "I will wear them when I am not in school." So I asked her to prepare those clothes well before going to Europe. When going to Europe, she asked me every morning what it was suitable for. As a result of this trip, Europe, Russia and Turkey we took a lot of photos. She told me that you all said very well! It should have been because she learned art. I used to match all of my husband』s clothes, but now I don』t have someone to please, so I don』t care about dressing up, but my vision of people』s clothes is never bad! 88, I can even do image design for you. Thinking of that for a while, you always loved her and couldn』t help standing up to speak for her and let her dress whatever she wanted. You won her childlike attachment to you, but I won her trust in me in value judgment. Remember that one you said not to wear it, because that's a white long-sleeved cotton shirt worn by Indians? Even Vera Wang likes the touch feeling of the cotton cloth. And this time, Steven required the dress with an orchid short skirt and asked her to wear it to meet those big figures. She is little and has no judgment or trust in me. She only waits others to speak well before she believes It's good. Now she was full of joy and willing to wear those beautiful clothes. She also pretended to say that she didn't know fashion before. There is nothing noisy about this, she has much to learn. 88. Could you also support my work and give me a compliment? In the future, try to educate her to say, "Don't quarrel with mom, listen to mom's words, that makes sense." Parents support each other. To love each other is the best role model and love education for the child. She sees more figures now, because she is in contact with Dear Chairman, 88, so these people come to see her. She has no professional background, and no wealth status. What she has is unrestrained youth and flattering personality and appearance. So it is very, very important that she can wear the right clothes. I』m not a professional fashion designer, I want to try to make her dress beautifully and let her learn how to dress herself. You see how Dear Chairman did, Dear Chairman said that he had learned fashion design before, even if he didn』t to compile to say there is a fashion concept, thank you Dear Chairman for your support. That  wild girl will surely want to go forward, and she will want to make some achievements in this field, and she can win  resonance and praise in front of Dear Chairman, right? Children are to be guided and set an example for them. You can』t let them go, because they don』t understand!