溝通交流是人與人之間理解了解的基礎。

溝通是人和人之間互相了解，理解，交朋友最基本的方法  Communication is the most basic way for people to understand, understand and make friends

Jun 22, 2017 at 3:23 AM
經常地互通有無，才能夠讓關係通順  Communicate with each other frequently to make the relationship smooth
親愛的主席，88，我一個晚上沒有睡好覺，心裡面想著昨天Jackie跟一大幫人探討宗教，那麼玄妙，那麼引人入勝的，是什麼結果呢？Jackie告訴我，無論是土耳其還是以色列，他們都有一種機制，就是定期地比如每周邀請宗教各方人士，大家聚集在一起，就像你們的天天世界論壇，大家各抒己見，交流意見，討論宗教話題，儘可能地互相理解. 如有什麼衝突意見，放在桌面上攤開來，大家群策群力共同解決. 其實這就是中國政府內部的所謂民主集中制，而有兩黨議會制組成的美國民主，有他們自己一套西方的解決問題的過程. 美國這兒教寫作，比如說寫故事，一定要有衝突，然後高潮，讓衝突解決才覺得完美. 而像這種多方坐在一起，不通過衝突高潮，而是用和稀泥的辦法調和解決，西方「民主」人士是不能理解的. 我問Jackie，這個是叫做什麼辦法？她小腦袋想半天答不出來，真是小港渡笨蛋. 然後我很清楚地明明白白告訴她，這種方法叫做 「 Communication", 一定要記住了！溝通是人和人之間互相了解，理解，交朋友最基本的方法.上海人說男女之間的互相結識是 「談「朋友，中國人說dating是談戀愛，愛是談出來的. 我問她溝通是雙向還是單向的？「two way", 行了，我告訴她，你看那麼多領袖願意跟她交流,是誠心誠意的,真正把她當回事兒的,雖然她是個小不點.要是遇見不是 「two way" 的communication，關係就會 doesn't lead to anywhere, 那就當陌路吧. 讓她學會看人挺重要的，人生少走多少彎路, 不能強求別人跟你同步的呢！88，是吧？嘿嘿嘿 你看知道如何去溝通，願意溝通，化干戈為玉帛，大家和睦相處，多好！你看美國人創造性地把大規模殺傷性武器硬扣在伊拉克頭上，不但不溝通，二話不說一大串的炸彈就扔人頭上了，怎麼可能有和平呢？夫妻之間要和睦，朋友之間，上下級之間，集團集團之間，都需要一個好的溝通能力，經常地互通有無，才能夠讓關係通順！

Dear Chairman, 88, I didn』t sleep well all night, thinking in my heart that Jackie discussed religion with a large group of people yesterday. So mysterious, so fascinating, what is the result? Jackie told me that whether it is Turkey or Israel, they have a mechanism to regularly invite people from all religions, for example, every week, everyone gathers, just like your daily World Political Forum, everyone expresses their opinions, exchanges opinions, and discusses religious topics. Try to understand each other as much as possible. If there are any conflicting opinions, spread them on the table, and everyone will work together to solve them. In fact, this is the so-called democratic centralism within the Chinese government. The American democracy, which is composed of a two-party  system, has its own set of Western problem-solving processes. The United States teaches writing, such as writing stories, there must be conflict, and then climax, so that conflict resolution will feel perfect. And like this Multi-party representatives sat together, not through solving climax of conflict, but by reconciling with the slime method. Western "democratic" people cannot understand it. I asked Jackie, what is this method called? Her little head didn't want to answer it for a long time, she was really  fool. Then I told her clearly that this method is called "Communication", so she must remember! Communication is the most basic way for people to understand, know, and make friends. Shanghainese said that the acquaintance between men and women is "talking" to make friends, the Chinese say dating is "talking" about love, and "love" comes out. I asked her whether the communication is two-way or one-way? "Two way", OK, I tell her, you see so many leaders are willing to communicate with her, it is sincere, and really takes her seriously, even though she is a child. If she meets communication that is not "two way" , the relationship will not lead to anywhere, then be a stranger. It is important for her to learn to see people, so that she can take fewer detours in her life, and can not force others to synchronize with her! 88, right? Hey, hey, you know how to communicate, willing to communicate, turn war into peace, how good it is for everyone to live in harmony! You see that Americans creatively buckled Iraq's weapons of mass destruction charges. Not only did they not communicate, they also threw a large string of bombs on their heads, how could there be peace? Between husband and wife, between friends, between superiors and subordinates, between groups, all need a good communication ability, and often communicate with each other to make the relationship smooth!