子非魚，安知魚之樂

Dec 3, 2015 at 8:40 PM

子非魚，安知魚之樂 not a fish, how do you know that fish is happy

小時候讀古文有一個「子非魚，安知魚之樂」的有哲學意味的故事. 講兩個朋友在魚塘邊觀魚，一個看得入神說，哎呀你看這魚多快樂呀！另一個說，你又不是魚，你怎麼知道魚快樂?

When I was a child, I read a story about the philosophical meaning of "not a fish, how do you know the enjoyment of afish". Two friends talked about fish in the fish pond, one staired at fish, 「oh, you see how happy this fish is!」 Another said, 「you are not a fish, how do you know that fish is happy?」

Jackie在學校做什麼我不太清楚，有時她高興，會告訴我些事.以前她跟Jeff，Steven相處挺好的. Steven很會哄孩子的, 他有一顆童心. 當他聽到universal要在北京開分處的時候，每天他到學校來都是手舞足蹈的, Jeff 就當面調侃他, 說他還在青春期.有一次Jackie告訴我，她問Steven, 為什麼獅子喜歡吃人肉，是因為人的肉甜嗎？可是她咬了一下自己的肉，一點味道都沒有，不好吃！Steven 看著她，不知道怎麼回答她. Jeff 在一旁忍不住大笑. 我知道就只有小孩子才會問出這樣的問題，不過看得出她是在動腦筋思考了！Steven告訴她獅子想法跟人想法不一樣的，對獅子來說人肉是甜的. 於是我就想起了這段子非魚, 安知魚之樂的故事！ 我在想，對同性戀是不是也有子非魚，安知魚之樂的事情呢？肯定兩個同性戀的帥哥，那麼執著地虔誠地把自己奉獻給對方，就像David說的, 粗粗壯壯的，充滿肌肉的，看上去就楞頭楞腦的男孩，只是這個有點太邪乎了。人真是一個奇怪的動物！

I don』t know what Jackie is doing at school. Sometimes she is happy and will tell me something. She used to get along wellwith Jeff and Steven. Steven is very good at children, he has a childlike heart. When he hears universal in Beijing opened the branch, every day he went to school, he danced. Jeff just ridiculed him and said that he was still in adolescence. Once Jackie told me that she asked Steven why the lion likes to eat human flesh, because of the sweetness of human beings. ? But she bit her own meat, there is no taste at all, not good! Steven looked at her and didn't know how to answer her. Jeff couldn't help but laugh. I knew that only a child would ask such a question, but I can see that she was thinking! Steven told her that the lion's thoughts are different from people's thoughts. For the lion, the human flesh is sweet. So it remindsme of the story of this not fish, without knowing the enjoymentof fish! I am thinking about whether homosexuality is also notfish, without knowing the enjoyment of fish situation. I am sure that the two gay guys are so dedicated and persistent to each other, as David said, the thick, muscular, boy who looks strong, but this is a bit too weird. People are really strange animals!