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back or stay
Some one upstairs pick up a few senstences out from my post, trying to show his/her different views to this problem. I would say: I agree with what you said. But you might misunderstand what i am saying.
First, I am not trying to say that SOMEONE BETTER COME TO PICK ME is the right way to be considered as "skilled worker". What I am trying to say is most smart people have their good way to live here, they should not take risks to go back like the lady in this discussion.
Second, I am sure the work I am doing is not replaceable easily like you said, otherwise i cannot be called expert. right? Into this part, I have confidance, because the work I do is leading serveral famous US University in a US goverment project. At least, the whole idea in the project is orginated from me. This goes back to people that give two goals in one's life: if you enjoy what you are doing, keep doing it, why give up? If you cannot find where you are, loser can still be a loser. It is not all just about money, I stay in University earning less money otherwise in industry, but I like what I am doing, that is good enough for me. I have no reason to try to sell myself back to China that I am good at this and that, trying to make them give a offer out of my lecture. that is stupid. that is what I mean that those who went back really not good examples of staying here. China should not take those people getting back and think "Haigui" that way. They should really come out to and see the real image.
Third, I don't want to involve to the discussion of if China is good or bad, US is good or bad. Those are dangerious way to think. If you can cut the line just based on this. You missed the point of real life. If you can live happy and every one can do the same to live the same way by working hard and get real life out of life. No matter where you stay, you contribute to this splendid world. Right? |
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