「假如你來到美國時是單身，你會嫁個美國人嗎？」

［［最好是兄妹通婚，絕對差異小，HOHO……］］
嗯，找頭驢嫁，絕對差異大，HOHO。

不知往極端走，能說明什麼

看你們要吵起來了, 滅滅火而已^_^

在德國版上也討論過有點類似的問題, 我的觀點如下COPY的, 懶得再寫了)
http://club.backchina.com/main/threadnav136527-1-10.html

身邊有幾個朋友是德國男朋友，看他們過得也挺好的，對於別人我是一向很支持，覺得很多中國男生想的，以為她們只是為了什麼身份啊什麼的，也覺得很不公平。同樣都是愛情，怎麼一論到歐洲人美國人就覺得是勢利啊，那是不是找個非洲難民就崇高啦？
至於自己，本來還想過實在嫁不出去了，就試試接受一下，畢竟德國人大齡男青年還是滿大街都是，其中也不乏欣賞得了東方美的優秀些的人，相對選擇的空間大一些。但是自打有一次跟一幫朋友一起去看一部喜劇電影，滿場的人都笑得不行，我就是笑不出來的時候，我就徹底斷了這個念頭。除非什麼時候能碰上一個跟我一起看馮小剛的片兒能跟我一起笑的，可以考慮，不然，寧願就這樣嫁不出去了。當然這種可能性幾乎等於零，所以好象本姑娘要嫁不出去了的可能性就已經超過了50%了。
哈哈，自勉一下。。。。

不過你的主意不錯, 血緣越遠好象越優秀的說, 哈^_^

好象放到這裡有點跑題啊, 因為那個主題上有人說中國女生找老外鄙視啊什麼的, 所以我說了那些.

I agree with chikenrun8, but it is not just that. More often than not, people staying in US will think it is hard to work with Chinese due to some of the reasons mentioned above. But as far as marriage with Americans, I think it is more than just talking about the personal characteristics here. Looking around, are there American girls really respect Chinese boys? I cannot see, if you cannot see this happen, would you even give it a try? No way. But seemed like American men love Chinese women a lot. The way for American Women to look at this is different, they are looking for rich to marry. But if you are newcomers to this country, you will have trouble to get rich in short term, in general. So, girls won't come to you at all, think about this...

Even Americans think girls here are jerky, not even worth to get married with, then why chinese boys should bother. Look around, I find more American men even try to avoid their girls. I don't think this topic in fact apply to the reality.

老外有老外的優點,但遺憾的是他們不懂得欣賞中國的古詩啊.

我覺得... 看緣份吧...