poor lady. I think she has nothing wrong in pursuing a 洋人. She is just not good luck. Wish her good luck in the new year
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作者: bulaohu 時間: 2006-12-27 13:05
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原帖由 aruba 於 2006-12-27 11:55 發表
poor lady. I think she has nothing wrong in pursuing a 洋人. She is just not good luck. Wish her good luck in the new year
I think she's wrong in many senses to limit her perspective partner to a certain racial group, while she had no idea about the culture etc of that particular group - It seems she's just after these racially distinctive features. I don't know how that's gonna guarantee a happy marriage...so naturally she failed. So she whinged. But is she going to realise how stupid she was and make some changes? I wish she will, but I'm in doubt - If you've committed the same mistake for 20 years, there is no reason why not another 20 years or until the grave calls.
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作者: 黑山老妖 時間: 2006-12-27 13:14
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原帖由 bulaohu 於 2006-12-27 12:05 發表
I think she's wrong in many senses to limit her perspective partner to a certain racial group, while she had no idea about the culture etc of that particular group - It seems she's just after t ...
I think most ppl are just circling around the real answer because everyone wanted to show they are compassionate. But your analysis is right on the money. A bit direct but that is the truth. Thank you for saying I was afraid to say.
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作者: 花無缺 時間: 2006-12-27 13:28
I think most ppl are just circling around the real answer because everyone wanted to show they are compassionate. But your analysis is right on the money. A bit direct but that is the truth. Th ...
I think she's wrong in many senses to limit her perspective partner to a certain racial group, while she had no idea about the culture etc of that particular group - It seems she's just after t ...
Totally agree. What a poor soul! History repeats itself if we don't learn from it.
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作者: alan 時間: 2006-12-29 12:11