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社交網站是虛擬世界，應該有在現實生活中更多的互動

作者：轉折點於 2020-11-3 02:05 發表於最熱鬧的華人社交網路--貝殼村

作者分類:創意|通用分類:熱點雜談

Dec 24, 2015 at 11:44 AM

社交網站是虛擬世界，應該有在現實生活中更多的互動 Social networking sites are virtual worlds and should have more interaction in real life.

今天聖誕節, 祝大家聖誕快樂！很早很早以前，第一次在美國過聖誕. 那是剛剛過了學期大考，人一下子輕鬆起來. 人生地不熟也沒有朋友, 看著外面shopping的人潮, 廣播里熱熱鬧鬧的聖誕音樂, 晚上左一家右一家閃爍的聖誕燈飾, 感覺那都不屬於我, 突然很想家. 於是跑到電影院里, 買一張票, 沒有什麼人, 從上午一直看到半夜. 累了, 精疲力竭, 回家睡覺! 就從那以後, 不管是熱鬧喧囂, 閃亮的, 激動人心的, 五彩繽紛的, 內心深處總有一個別人到不了的角落, 可以讓我一個人安安靜靜的看「電影」.

It is Christmas today, I wish you all a Merry Christmas! Longlong time ago, when it was the first time I came to the United States for Christmas. I just finished the semester final exam, Ifelt suddenly relaxed. Unfamiliar with the surroundings, and no friends, watching the shopping crowd outside, the lively Christmas music on the radio, at night twinkling Christmas lights from families on streets, I felt that they did not belong to me, suddenly missed home so much. So I went to the cinema, bought a ticket, no one inside, I watched movies from morningtill the middle of night. Extremely tired, exhausted, went home hit the bed sleep! From then on, whether it』s lively, shiny, exciting, colorful, there』s always a corner in the heart that can』t be reached by others, so I could watch the 「movie」bymyself quietly. ".

人類社會中, 一生有很多選擇轉折關頭, 比如說交友, 比如說找工作.一個人既使學得再多的知識，再大的才華，沒有機會施展, 應用, 那都是白費. 這也是社會資源的大浪費. 在美國一個人一生平均要換7個工作，當然不會在同一個地方. 互聯網的誕生也摧生了一批社交網站. 但是無論如何，人跟人心靈的交流，不是那麼容易的. 現在的社交網站，比如說，Facebook, wechat, Instagram, Meow, 還有dating網站等等，都是只提供一個平台，讓人花錢註冊然後自己去尋找社交對象，大多數提供的信息，就是興趣愛好的相似選擇. 個人的能力有限，花那麼多精力找到的大多數人，都不是稱心如願的！一對一交談，基本上是成為熟人以後才可以進行的. 群聊也就是大家發表意見感想，都只是表面上的東西，並沒有把個人所有的資源和能力，發揮調動應用起來，很少能有真正出成果的東西，沒有真心.

In human society, there are many choices, turning points in one』s life, such as making friends, such as looking for work. Even a person has more knowledge, is a big talent, if there isno chance to display to apply, it is all in vain. This is also a big waste of social resources. In the United States, one person would change seven jobs on average, of course, not in the same place. The birth of the Internet has also created a number of social networking sites. But in any case, the communication between people is not so easy. Today's social networking sites, such as Facebook, Wechat, Instagram, Meow, and dating websites, all provide a platform for people to sign up and then find their own social objects. Most of the information provided is interest. similar choices or hobbies. The individual's ability is limited, and most people who spend so much energy to find whom they are not satisfied! One-on-one conversations can basically be carried out after becoming an acquaintance. Group chat is also a way of expressing opinions. It is just superficial. It does not apply all the resources and abilities of individuals. There is something that is not truly fruitful. Not real!

如果是新交，要認識信任一個人也需要時間. 如果有人能提供高層次的服務，比如能夠掌握這個人的成長過程，性格經濟背景，家庭背景教育構成，朋友圈，興趣愛好，等多方面的一首材料，應用心理學的, 社會學的, 宗教文化的背景，幫助他尋找可以交往的對象，並創造條件使他們能夠相識相知. 或按照人的生理情況，精神需要，家庭需要，幫助他尋找滿足需要的對象, 那多好. 事情說起來好複雜，其實沒那麼複雜. 物以類聚, 心有靈犀.

If it is a new acquaintance, it takes time to know how to trust a person. If someone can provide a high-level service, such as being able to master the growth process of this person, personality economic background, family background education composition, circle of friends, hobbies, etc. materials, applying psychology, sociology, religious culture background, helping him find objects that can be compatible, and creating conditions for them to know each other; or according to human physiological conditions, spiritual needs, family needs, helping him looking for an object that meets his needs, that is wonderful. Things seem so complicated, but they are not so complicated. Birds of same feather flop together, and the heart is in harmony.

或者讓參與者自己提出要求，比如說求職的，比如說商業活動, 經濟活動等等，而把這些社交網站及各個層次交流服務聯合起來提供服務，按需要打造產品, 提供服務平台，個性化的，好不好？如果你們的文化, 心靈交流是以聯合國的名義，那是高層次的大範圍的，並不是大眾的，不是整個社會的. 如果能做的更加新穎一點，細膩一點，能和相關的社交網站合作，把那些同學會, 同鄉會，宗教集會，文化集會，等等都一網打盡, 覆蓋不同層次的需要，覆蓋不同族群, 不同文化的民眾，不光是文化和心靈，而且還提供教育,求職,企業合作,項目合作,和心理滿足, 那就很好了. 比如說讓年長者和年幼者在一起交流，沒有心理障礙. 比如把有可能投資合作的各方聚集在一起, 互相認識討論合作項目，等等.

Or let the participants make their own requests, such as job hunting, such as business activities, economic activities, etc., and combine these social networking sites and various levels of communication services to provide services, build products as needed, provide service platforms, and personalize it,good? If your culture spiritual exchange is in the name of the United Nations. It is a high-level, large-scale, not open topublic, not the whole society. If you can do something more novel and delicate, you can work with related social networking sites to bring out the classmates, fellowships, religious gatherings, cultural gatherings, etc., covering different levels of needs, covering different ethnic groups, different cultures, not only culture and mind, but also education, job search, business cooperation, project cooperation, and psychological satisfaction, that would begreat! For example, let the elderly and young people communicate with each other without psychological barriers. For example, bring together parties who are likely to invest and cooperate, and know each other and discuss cooperationproject, etc.

中國人的社交平台最多就是在餐館，所以餐館裝飾得美倫美奐，食物做得食不厭精，那是為了讓就餐的人能夠心情愉快交流無障礙. 文化不只是餐飲，還有音樂，藝術，體育，娛樂等等. 可以開不同的「舞台」，設置不同的俱樂部，創造不同的機會，比如組織旅遊有優惠，比如一起打球有場地，比如一起開音樂會, 開舞會, 比如討論書法繪畫, 有機地讓有關的人互相認識，讓人生活美好，也讓這種結交賦予成果. 這是比虛擬世界更進一步的，實現.

The Chinese social platform is at most restaurants, so the restaurant is beautifully decorated and the food is delicious. It is to make the people who are eating happy and enjoy the barrier-free conversation. Culture is not just food, music, art. , sports, entertainment, etc. You can open different "stages", set up different clubs, and create different opportunities, such as organizing tours with discounts, such as playing games together, such as playing concerts, dancing, such as discussing calligraphy painting. Organically let the people concerned know each other, let people live beautifully, and let this kind of friendship bring results. This is further than the virtual world, it is realization.