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剛借錢給了一個賭徒 感覺收不回來了

作者：華人新聞  於 2016-1-31 02:42 發表於 最熱鬧的華人社交網路--貝殼村

通用分類:家庭新聞

關鍵詞：借錢, 賭博, 離婚, 假話, 賭徒


晚上有個電話打進來，一看是0775固話打過來我就感覺不好。因為在桂平很少有人知道我電話，知道我電話的，我爸媽、我哥、我大姨都是會用手機打給我的。

電話是我二舅父打過來的。問我吃過飯沒，就直奔主題借錢......他已經問過我借過一次，在QQ上。因為親戚們都知道他是個賭徒，叫我如果二舅父問借錢就說沒有，借了也是拿去賭。上次我婉拒了他，因為本身也沒有什麼多少剩餘的錢借。

這次直接打電話過來借，我問他，最近差很多數嗎？他說是，差人幾百萬！這是他自己說的，我不知道是不是。

因為之前他是做六仔莊家的，那幾年賺了好多錢，基本上每開一期少則幾萬，多則十幾萬賺，在桂平買房子，兩年換了兩部車。換車的時候我還問他，這麼快換車，穩得咁堅啊！他風光的時候有次過年回家，我和老媽去他家探年，態度也比較冷淡。對我來說這其實更好，我個人問題，我是不怎麼擅長和親戚打交道！

後來贏的錢多了，和別人去社坡賭大檔。可能被人做局，那段時間他把所有身家都輸了。然後和大耳窿借錢繼續賭，想翻身，後果就是把房子和小車都賣了，還欠人周身數！舅母和他今年離婚了，我兩個表弟表妹都跟了舅母，一個小學三年級一個一年級。這個我還是無意中知道的，看到舅媽QQ心情寫「一個人的生活...」我問我爸媽才知道。

今次再問我借錢，畢竟是舅父，實在拒絕不出口了！無奈問他工行卡號，他說他工行卡可能取不出錢的，還欠工行錢。最後給了我農行卡號......還和我說，借的錢是為了今晚請銀行的人玩，明天同銀行借幾十萬出來！我擦，我雖然是晚輩，但我不是三歲小孩啊！這樣的假話都說的出口。

leo哥哥仔
2013-12-03


世界日報：賭徒邸千「霸租」紐約家庭旅館 敲詐勒索三千美元

家庭旅館惡房客 拿錢落跑

在法拉盛Ash大道夾邦恩街（Bowne St.）某家庭旅館租一個床位的中年華裔男子邸千，日前向警方指稱房東把門反鎖、扔他東西等多種惡劣手段企圖非法驅趕。房東孫先生則稱，雙方糾紛是因邸千欠龐大賭債，沒從他那裡借到錢而報警。警方介入后，雙方終於和解，邸千帶著房東借他的數百元日前搬出家庭旅館，並留下一封給房東的信，作為借據。

房客邸千投訴稱，房東孫先生得知市樓宇局（Building Department）要來檢查后，開始驅趕房客，因他不肯搬走，多次把門反鎖，扔掉他放在冰箱的食物和一些日用品，還企圖把他的行李箱扔到街頭。

針對這起投訴，孫先生表示，「這房客不久前因攻擊罪被捕，釋放后沒錢，我出於好心讓他住進來，勸他改惡從善。」

孫先生指出，雙方此次衝突的起因是賭博，「上月20日，他說賭博輸掉老闆讓他辦事的錢，不還錢工作就沒了，因此開口向我借1000元，我沒借他，後來了解到他把離婚賣房剛分到的錢也輸掉了，而且向幾個人借錢還沒還」。

「因為我不借他錢，他就不付租金並威脅稱，這個家庭旅館非法，他就在這裡不走，而且要去舉報，讓旅館開不下去。這種情況下，我決定關閉家庭旅館，讓其他住客搬走。沒想到，他開始搞破壞，弄壞電飯鍋、撬門、砸鎖、威脅，朝我臉上吐口水，拳頭在我眼前晃，嚇得我們不敢進屋。」

關於邸千投訴他換鎖一事，孫先生指出，對方聽說如果房東換鎖，警察可以逮捕房東，於是就以換鎖為由，兩次從逃生樓梯爬到四樓，從窗口進入。孫先生解釋，他開始並沒有換鎖，後來不得已才換鎖是因為邸千在鎖心裡塞了牙籤。

孫先生強調，「我並沒有扔他的行李，現在他連吃飯的錢都沒有，前幾天，想向我要3000元，最少2500元，說拿到錢馬上就搬走。我最終給了他700元，他在周二早上搬走了，還寫了一封給我的道歉信，此事也算告一段落」。

孫先生指出，紐約有上千家家庭旅館，數以萬計的華裔房東分租床位給打工者。家庭旅館和分租都不合法規，但卻為眾多收入不高、以打工為生、甚至要寄錢回國的華裔移民提供很多便利、降低他們的生活成本，為政府解決一些社會問題。

世界日報記者／紐約報導
July 28, 2015


邸千，男，1971年2月出生，遼寧省大連市人，現居紐約法拉盛，職業是送貨司機。嗜好抽煙賭博，打架鬥毆，詐騙，欠債不還，誣告債主及房東。有犯罪被捕入獄記錄。

Failed gambler Qian Di occupied a guesthouse and extorted $3000 (World Journal post)

An evil tenant blackmailed money from a guesthouse then escaped

Qian Di, a milldle-aged Chinese man who rented a bed from a guesthouse on the Ash Avenue and Bowne Street in the Flushing Town, ecently told the police that his landlord try to drive out him illegally with a variety of harsh means, such as locked the door and throw him baggages. However, the landlord Mr.Sun said, their dispute is due to Qian Di owed huge gambling debts, and can not to borrow money from him, then, called the police. Through the police intervention, the two sides finally reconciliated----Qian Di moved out of the guesthouse recently with hundreds dollars whice the landlord lended him, and leave a letter to landlord for a debt note.

The tenant Qian Di complained that his landlord Sun drives all tenants while hearsay the City Department of Buildings will examine to come. Mr.Sun locked the door repeatedly, and throwed his refrigerator foods and some daily necessities because he refused to move out. Mr.Sun even attempted to throw his trunk to the street.

In view of this complaint, Mr.Sun said, "This tenant was arrested by the attack crime not long ago. He has no money after the release. I let him live here by my kindness. Also I advised him to mend his ways."

Mr.Sun pointed out that cause of comflict is Qian Di indulged in gambling. "On the 20th of last month, Qian Di told me that he lost the payment for goods of his boss in the gambling. He was afraid that he might lose his job if he doesn't return the payment to his boss. Therefore he asked me to loan $1000. I didn't lend money to him yet. Soon after, I learned that he sold his house that he got from the divorce case. He also borrowed money from many people and has not returned to them."

"He didn't pay the rental to me because I didn't lend money to him. He declared this guesthouse is illegal. He will not only to stay living here, but also will report to the government. He threatened to make my  guesthouse close. In this case, I decided to close the guesthouse, and persuaded other residents move away. Unexpectedly, he began to engage in sabotage, such as damaged the electric rice cooker, and pried the doors, and smashed locks.He was using violence and intimidation. He spited in my face, and shaked his fist in front of me. Therefore We dare not enter here again."

Regarding the case which Qian Di complainted his landlord changed the lock, Mr.Sun pointed out that Qian Di knew the law requires that the police can arrest the landlord who changes the lock without authorization. Thus Qian Di use it as an excuse to climbed from the escape stairs to the 4th floor and came into the window. Mr.Sun explained that he would not change the lock originally, but he changed it later because of Qian Di crammed the toothpick in the lock.

Mr.Sun stressed, "I did not throw his luggage. Qian Di has no money to buy foods now. A few days ago, He ask me to borrow $3000, at least $2500. He said that he will leave at once, as soon as he gets the money. Finally I gave him $700. He, then, moved out on Tuesday morning, and wrote an apology letter to me. This matter was end."

Mr.Sun pointed out that there are thousands of guesthouses in New York. Tens of thousands of Chinese landlords sublet beds for the migrant workers. The beds subletting of the guesthouses are illegal, but they provide some conveniences for many Chinese immigrants who are low-income, and work for a living, or even to send money to home. The guesthouses reduce their living costs, and help the government to solve some social problems.

World Journal reporter / New York post
July 28, 2015

Translator: Ms.Le Zhou
 
(Qian Di, a Chinese male, born in February 21, 1971. He is living in Flushing town, New York City now. He is addicted to gambling, fighting, fraud, false debt, creditors and the landlord. He has some criminal records. Warning: Do not lend your money or rent your room for the Chinese gambler Qian Di! If you find out that he is trying to harm you, please report to the police immediately. His SSN is 115-23-9532.)



病態賭徒大多覺得「賭注要越來越大才覺得過癮、刺激，增加數量和次數，獲取快感」。病態賭徒，病態賭博沉溺於賭博，不能自拔，參與賭博已成為強迫性行為，以致演變到影響職業甚至傷害到家庭的地步，該病所引致的問題可能包括家庭暴力、欺詐、離婚、破產等，一般覺得賭注要越來越大才覺得過癮、刺激，增加數量和次數，獲取快感，為了籌賭本可做出非法行為，如詐騙、作假、失信及偷竊等，因賭博而致債台高築，須靠別人金錢援助。病態賭徒們賭博時心裡只有賭，其他事務毫不在意，可一連幾十小時在賭桌上邊吃邊賭，困了只眯下雙眼，直到輸光。他們入迷時往往相信博彩中的玄乎，或盯著牌面或大叫或大嘆。病態賭徒沉迷賭博，債台高築，因而欠下財務公司、銀行、家人及親友債項。病態賭徒在沉迷賭博時期每天只想賭博，根本沒有心情關心家人及投入工作，賭輸就會與家人吵架，又要求家人代還債務，當家人替他還清賭債后，又再次「搏殺」，一心希望把之前所輸的錢贏回來，結果越賭越深，不能自拔。

病態賭博的十種特徵：1. 在賭博上花費的時間和金錢多於自己能夠負擔或事前安排的；2. 借錢賭博；3. 把用於必需品（如食物、房租等）的錢拿去賭；4. 因賭博而忽視重要的責任（如工作、學業或家庭）；5. 撒謊或隱瞞賭博的程度；6. 試圖贏回輸掉的錢；7. 為了金錢的問題與你的朋友和家人爭吵；8. 因賭博而未付賬單；9. 四處躲債；10. 為賴賬而誣陷謀害債主。


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