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教子故事之一:小刀被老師吼了

作者:jadepython  於 2012-8-9 10:47 發表於 最熱鬧的華人社交網路--貝殼村

通用分類:原創文學|已有2評論

關鍵詞:老師, 故事

(註: 三刀是我的舊筆名)

三刀的兒子很淘氣,前幾天從CAMP回來很不爽,說老師對他大吼了,我問:是一般的嚴厲,還是尖叫?兒子說:是尖叫。我說:那你給學一下。兒子就尖叫了一聲,確實很大聲。


於是我問好了那個CAMP老師的名字,叫Claire.

昨天我就送兒子去CAMP了,按照兒子的指點,找到了Claire。下面就是對話:

本刀滿臉堆笑:Hello, are you Claire?

Claire: Yes I am, how can I help you?

本刀接著堆笑:Can you please come over here, I would like to have a word with you.(氣勢上一定要居高臨下)

Claire 茫然:Yes sure.

本刀皮笑肉不笑:My son, Sandao Jr., told me that you were screaming at him in a class yesterday, he was a little upset when he got home, but I would just like to get your side of story on what actually happened? May be you can give me some sort of explanation? (一副探求真理的模樣)

Claire有點意外:Hmm...I am not sure what you are referring to, I did ask them to sit down and stop talking sometimes, but that was toward the whole class, not to your son in particular.

本刀認真的樣子:Oh you did the right thing, I am with you totally.(先要肯定對方的工作嘛)Absolutely you need to be firm with them. But I would just like to confirm with you that there was no excessive loudness and unnecessary shouting/screaming involved.(別跟洒家玩虛的,我沒跟你開玩笑)

Claire有點無辜:Oh no no, I did not scream at them.

本刀假裝釋然:Then that's great. Thanks you for your time, have a nice day. (轉身就走,不啰唆)

從此以後,據小刀說,那個Claire只敢對著其他人叫了。 其實這麼多年,我發現在西方文化里的人,是有一種狼性的,也就是他們會咬任何一個文化外的族裔,這個咬,包括打壓/欺侮/虐待/歧視。。。直到發現你會主 動攻擊他或者會用棒子去打痛他。這可能是西方人天然的一種爭鬥習慣。所以我覺得,但凡覺得受欺負了或可能受欺負了,第一件事就得讓對方知道你不是好惹的。 然後這個PLAY GROUND,才真正的是平的。


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回復 JuneRipple 2012-8-17 07:44
yes, how can I help you? ....hehe ...
回復 超越2010 2012-8-26 03:10
有些西方人確實是這樣的,分析得有些道理。

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