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每天活著都像狗

作者:oneweek  於 2013-2-17 05:44 發表於 最熱鬧的華人社交網路--貝殼村

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關鍵詞:活著,

不管你是誰, 你都要討生活。除非你是富人的子弟, 遺產無限多; 或者你能嫁入豪門。別的人, 不管你是博士碩士學士還是沒有文化的文盲, 都要為生計奔波。

國內幾千年的文化 注入大家頭腦之一點 就是萬般皆下品 唯有讀書高; 書中自有黃金屋 書中自有顏如玉。 讀了書幾大車, 如果沒有人像以前孟嘗君那樣喜歡養閑人的貴族, 把你保養起來, 你還是要把自己的知識應用出來 為社會創造價值, 也為自己掙個五斗米 吃吃。

剛才看了SPATIAL的《像狗一樣賴在美國系列》http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Prose/31161830.html。 作者說了, 「撿垃圾日記(1-20)」在MITBBS上張貼后,立即引起國內幾家出版社的關注,現在正在修改擴充,相信不久即可正式出版。」  國內的, 能抓住笑話美國的事情, 大家都會感興趣的。 作者後來到華爾街工作的事情, 很可能就一刀割去不提。 

以前看楊恆均寫得一個故事(大意如下), 就是湖北還是湖南某地一位老太太, 能以土豆果腹; 賣鵝蛋還惦記著美國欠中國無數的債務, 大家都會不會餓肚子(http://www.douban.com/group/topic/5885714/)。 這個俺看了不怨老太太, 怨那些誤導她的混蛋。 俺自己, 沒有出過的時候, 有一陣子也以為世界上三分之二的人在餓肚子。

回到這位SPATIAL的故事, 在俺看來正常不過, 有時後生活中處於壞運氣壞時機的階段, 能撿瓶子生活, 也是一個好的鍛煉。 那個日子, 說成像狗的日子, 也是沒有必要。 撿瓶子是像狗的日子, 到華爾街工作, 是像老虎、恐龍的日子?  叫俺看來, 很多高級白領,即使在華爾街, 還是像狗的日子; 或者像豬的日子。 就是回國了, 說不定還得添上司的屁股, 還是一樣狗的日子。

拿俺的一位熟人為例。 上學的時候很多人在餐館打過工, 俺以前的一位同學, 怎天就說他是副教授了, 還得到餐館打工, 很多不平。 俺悄悄想一下, 你自己語言啥也講不清楚; 搞科研的時候思維混亂, 難道要哪個大學請你當教授嗎?

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回復 病枕軛 2013-2-17 06:08
孟嘗君養門客三千!開始是有點小小地滿足自己的自尊心和面子!可當他倒霉的時候,馮驩挺身而出!教他買「義」!教他「狡兔三窟」!這說明什麼?說明尊重人才是一種潛在的、看不見的巨大投資啊!現在人如果能從古人身上學到點聰明就好啦!!
回復 fanlaifuqu 2013-2-17 06:27
慶幸自己像狗的日子已過去,發我錢的人他(她)不認識我,我也不認識她(他)!哈哈!
不過狗在美國日子不錯(你最喜歡的詞)。
回復 總裁判 2013-2-17 06:30
這是篇好文章,細細看,看到人有時侯刻意貶低自己的時候,內心很驕傲,好像在告訴大家,自己其實是李嘉誠,是個不容易的人物,最苦的活也干過。而且把苦日子的「責任」推給社會,不是推給美國,就是象那個老婆子,怎麼怪都怪到美國頭上去,如此在狗堆里就顯得很高尚。
回復 fanlaifuqu 2013-2-17 06:39
SPATIAL進村了!
回復 穿鞋的蜻蜓 2013-2-17 06:44
這裡有文化差異, 在西方文化中,狗一般不做貶義引申,即使有,其含義完全不同,看下面這篇:
Learning to LIVE like a DOG
  
As I sit here in the early morning hours, I am transfixed by the haphazard sprinkle of lights against the black canvas of night.

Silence permeats the cloak of darkness, and yet, there is this innate knowing that city life is slowly awakening to brewing pots of coffee and tea, and that a new day will soon be in full force.

The melancholiness of the hour mimicks my heart as I realize that today is the one year anniversary of the death of my beloved pug, Dekker Black.  Perhaps the near close call of my father』s departure from this world is also not far from my thoughts this morning.

But I have determined in my heart that even though my heart is heavy with a longing for those wet kisses that were often snuck in on the sly, or that silly tilt of the head that all pugs seems to be born with, that I am going to remember the wonderful years I had with Dekker.

My father』s heart attack made me realize how much of our life is so silly and meaningless.  When placed up against the departure of a loved one, the 「seriousness of life」 or the supposed significance of a 『problem』 suddenly dim in comparison.


"Double Rainbow"
What appeared to be so important, suddenly in the blink of an eye, is not.

Thus, the lense of life is dramatically changed and what is truly important is magnified.

One of the most important lessons I learned, again, from my dad is to never forget to tell those in my life what they mean to me and how proud I am of them.

Can you remember the last time someone told you they are proud of you?   Something so simple to do, and yet, something we often forget.

Or … when was the last time that you told that amazing friend how much you loved them?  Again, something so simple, and yet, something we often think we have plenty of time to do so we continually keep puttting it off.

Dogs are amazing creatures because they have learned to live in the moment.  They don』t worry about yesterday and past offenses and they have no concern about tomorrow.  They just want your attenion, love and food – now.  (smile)


Play Time is NOW!
Perhaps a great goal for the new year (for me at least) is to learn to live like Dekker did?

It would be the greatest tribute I could pay to him for the wonderful years I had with him.

As Christmas slowly inches towards us, please remember to take time to tell those who are important in your life how much they truly mean.

And  … whatever has happened in the past, well … perhaps leaving it there is best.

As for tomorrow, we can』t do anything about it, so let』s just focus on today, eh?

I hope each of you know how important you are to me.  You have been such a blessing and a gift in my life.  You allow me to share your ups and your downs with you, you encourage me and so many others, and you never cease to amaze me with your courage to confront one more day.

Know that you are in my heart and thoughts today, that I love you, and how incredibly proud I am of you!  (smile/wink)
回復 dwqdaniel 2013-2-17 06:45
撿瓶子過日子也是種生活方式,無可非議,可是,我不喜歡。
回復 dwqdaniel 2013-2-17 06:46
總裁判: 這是篇好文章,細細看,看到人有時侯刻意貶低自己的時候,內心很驕傲,好像在告訴大家,自己其實是李嘉誠,是個不容易的人物,最苦的活也干過。而且把苦日子的「 ...
哪個老婆子?
回復 穿鞋的蜻蜓 2013-2-17 06:48
這篇更明白:

Tips for 2013! Live Like a Dog!

Things You Can Learn From A Dog

Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride. Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.

When loved ones come home, always run to greet them. When it is in your best interest, practice obedience.

Take naps and stretch before rising. Run, romp, and play daily. Be loyal.

When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle them gently. Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.

Delight in the simple joy of taking a walk. On hot days, drink lots of water and lay under a shade tree.

When you are happy, dance around and wag your entire body. No matter how often you are scolded, don』t buy into the guilt thing and pout.

Run right back and make friends.
回復 穿鞋的蜻蜓 2013-2-17 06:49
難怪村裡有個可愛的網友取名「小皮狗」:)
回復 遠洋副船長 2013-2-17 06:49
像什麼不重要!要慶幸自己還活著,有人已經死了
回復 小皮狗 2013-2-17 07:12
穿鞋的蜻蜓: 難怪村裡有個可愛的網友取名「小皮狗」:)
謝謝蜻蜓姐姐, 我很喜歡.    
回復 小皮狗 2013-2-17 07:15
我覺得任何行業都沒有高貴和低賤之分,這是一種心態,如果自己可以尊重自己所做的一切,無論做什麼,都會做得很好,甚至很出色。而有一部分人,永遠活在一種抱怨社會不公或自怨自艾的狀態里....
回復 無為村姑 2013-2-17 07:16
狗跟狗一樣嗎?~
回復 dwqdaniel 2013-2-17 07:23
小皮狗: 我覺得任何行業都沒有高貴和低賤之分,這是一種心態,如果自己可以尊重自己所做的一切,無論做什麼,都會做得很好,甚至很出色。而有一部分人,永遠活在一種抱怨 ...
以前有村民勸過那個Q, 但是不太有效果,我看他就喜歡那種生活。當然,再怨天尤人就不值得同情了。
回復 穿鞋的蜻蜓 2013-2-17 07:33
小皮狗: 謝謝蜻蜓姐姐, 我很喜歡.      
謝謝,我也要像小皮狗一樣活著:)
回復 小皮狗 2013-2-17 07:33
dwqdaniel: 以前有村民勸過那個Q, 但是不太有效果,我看他就喜歡那種生活。當然,再怨天尤人就不值得同情了。
謝謝提供信息. 我本來也以為是那樣的,但今天一周兄的這篇博文是針對村口的一篇博文,有感而發.而那篇博文的情況看來有點不一樣了,我們作了一些評論,但後來發現與那位樓主已經無法溝通了,您如果有時間,不妨去看一下,也談談您的感想?
http://my.backchina.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=324101&do=blog&id=173155   
回復 穿鞋的蜻蜓 2013-2-17 07:36
dwqdaniel: 以前有村民勸過那個Q, 但是不太有效果,我看他就喜歡那種生活。當然,再怨天尤人就不值得同情了。
輿論引導員:)
回復 dwqdaniel 2013-2-17 07:36
小皮狗: 謝謝提供信息. 我本來也以為是那樣的,但今天一周兄的這篇博文是針對村口的一篇博文,有感而發.而那篇博文的情況看來有點不一樣了,我們作了一些評論,但後來發現與 ...
我原以為他和Q是同一個人,文章出自一人之手,現在很清楚啦,有一人肯定是抄襲的唄,而且別有用心地在誤導,不值得去評論了。
回復 dwqdaniel 2013-2-17 07:38
穿鞋的蜻蜓: 輿論引導員:)
沒錯!五毛
回復 dwqdaniel 2013-2-17 07:40
無為村姑: 狗跟狗一樣嗎?~
網評員不是狗哈,別侮辱了狗!

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