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- 回復 Giada
- 看樣子你們有溝通的問題，你不容易，同情一下。但孩子在這邊的學校里，一般都會知道要自己養活自己，不能依靠父母。他可能是故意給你找麻煩，以後萬事讓他自己做主，你只提供意見。跟他說好，他自己的決定要自己負責，讓他出去吃點兒苦頭就懂事了。看看這個方法可不可以？
foxxfam: 他喜歡有人養他到永遠...吃著我的用著我的,高興就好,不高興就罵,連我死去的爹媽都跟著受罵....
- 回復 foxxfam
- 我就是這個意思.比如這幾天很熱,氣溫高達90多度,他投訴沒有冷氣...我們來自火爐之鄉,我們老家78月份天天40多度...長島近70出口了為什麼一定要冷氣? 皮毛受點罪,對他有益....
Giada: 看樣子你們有溝通的問題，你不容易，同情一下。但孩子在這邊的學校里，一般都會知道要自己養活自己，不能依靠父母。他可能是故意給你找麻煩，以後萬事讓他自己做 ...
- 回復 smartman
- my $0.02:
i have no prior experience in dealing with an adolenscent, rebellient teenager. i am offering one suggestion: you can influence such a strong, adament person as his friend not as his opponent. it may be tough for you to change your role into his friend.
did you try to network with your peers or colleagues who have sons of your son's age and can be your son's accompany? try to get someone who is a good example, willing to become your son's friend hence can influence your son. try to get one or more.
- 回復 foxxfam
- Nice words, thank you very much ...However, it is clear you have no experience dealing with this type of boy...He has absolutely no interest in meeting new people, or making "friends", and if we ask him to try, he replies; "Whatever!!"
He lies, he cheats, he sneaks around our house and steals things, etc....
He just wants to stay in bed and watch TV all day...He refuses to study English, play sports, or get a job...We are now trying the "tough love" approach...
- 回復 Giada
- 不過他投訴你還是要表示同情哦，同情完了再說，兒子這是你工作的一部分，你就忍忍吧，每個工作都有不如意的地方。換一個工作這裡好了，那裡又壞了。要鍛煉自己對壞事的忍耐力。這樣他覺得你同情他，而不是逼著他吃苦。看看這樣的效果是不是好些？
foxxfam: 我就是這個意思.比如這幾天很熱,氣溫高達90多度,他投訴沒有冷氣...我們來自火爐之鄉,我們老家78月份天天40多度...長島近70出口了為什麼一定要冷氣? 皮毛受點罪,對 ...