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和大家分享俺老公傳來的一個伊妹兒

作者:尖兒媽  於 2011-3-22 03:26 發表於 最熱鬧的華人社交網路--貝殼村

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俺老公幾乎從不轉伊妹兒,倒是俺總是樂不顛顛地收啊轉啊的,他還總說俺每天不務正業!所以看到他轉來的東東還真是小有吃驚咧. 看完很有感慨, 俺也是孩兒娘,這篇東東還真對俺有攻擊力,所以進村來和所有為人父母的分享。

Story of Appreciation**


One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.

He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision.

The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.

The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "none".

The director asked, " Was it your father who paid for your school fees?" The youth answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.

The director asked, " Where did your mother work?" The youth answered, "My mother worked as clothes cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.

The director asked, " Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?" The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.

The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.*

The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.

The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.

This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.

The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: " Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"

The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'

The Director asked, " please tell me your feelings."

The youth said, Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not be
 the successful me today.

Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done.

Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.

The director said, " This is what I am looking for to be my manager.
I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of
others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.

= = = = = 

A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the kid instead?*

You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done. 

You would have forwarded many mails to many and many of them would have back mailed you too...but try and forward this story to as many as possible...this may change somebody's fate...


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回復 wcat 2011-3-22 03:33
什麼時候的事?在美國都用洗衣機了嘛
回復 尖兒媽 2011-3-22 03:47
wcat: 什麼時候的事?在美國都用洗衣機了嘛
這個俺倒是沒考查過,不過道理是不變的哈!
回復 BL_518 2011-3-22 04:14
很感人的故事~~
回復 fanlaifuqu 2011-3-22 07:42
我念字慢,讀標題「和大家分享我老公。。。。。。」
回復 meistersinger 2011-3-22 10:05
潑點冷水。我們這實際。雇manager時不問怎麼付的學費。(EEOC要問罪的。)
話有說回來啦。孩子們從小就要學會自立。
回復 jjsummer95 2011-3-22 10:07
Chinese writing, or a foreigner's writing..
回復 尖兒媽 2011-3-22 10:16
BL_518: 很感人的故事~~
是的。
回復 尖兒媽 2011-3-22 10:16
fanlaifuqu: 我念字慢,讀標題「和大家分享我老公。。。。。。」
嗯,你可以和崔哥有一比。
回復 尖兒媽 2011-3-22 10:17
meistersinger: 潑點冷水。我們這實際。雇manager時不問怎麼付的學費。(EEOC要問罪的。)
話有說回來啦。孩子們從小就要學會自立。
這俺倒不知,學習啦。
回復 尖兒媽 2011-3-22 10:18
jjsummer95: Chinese writing, or a foreigner's writing..
That I don't know. I can't tell from the article itself. You maybe right. None the less, the message it carries is applicable to all. It could very well be a story happened in Asia.
回復 meistersinger 2011-3-22 10:24
尖兒媽: 這俺倒不知,學習啦。
別往心理去。閑得逗悶子。
這文章是中國人寫的。以前看過中文版。有一位海歸朋友一天到晚發類似的伊妹兒。
回復 尖兒媽 2011-3-22 10:26
meistersinger: 別往心理去。閑得逗悶子。
這文章是中國人寫的。以前看過中文版。有一位海歸朋友一天到晚發類似的伊妹兒。
寫得不錯啊,俺給孩子們都轉了,當天晚上兩男孩就要幫我洗碗,很管用的!
回復 jjsummer95 2011-3-22 10:26
尖兒媽: That I don't know. I can't tell from the article itself. You maybe right. None the less, the message it carries is applicable to all. It could very we ...
http://loveneverending.com/?p=1120
回復 尖兒媽 2011-3-22 10:29
又學習了,呵呵。
回復 jjsummer95 2011-3-22 10:35
尖兒媽: 又學習了,呵呵。
不知道這是不是原文。。
回復 尖兒媽 2011-3-22 10:38
jjsummer95: 不知道這是不是原文。。
還要學習你的研究精神   。是不是都無所謂,俺只是覺得這種教育對孩子很有用。
回復 jjsummer95 2011-3-22 10:47
尖兒媽: 還要學習你的研究精神    。是不是都無所謂,俺只是覺得這種教育對孩子很有用。
美國文化是從小教孩子自立, 而且有可能拿獎學金的是一定要拿的。。這和文章里講得不一樣。。
回復 Cristal 2011-3-25 10:31
感人!
回復 寧靜千年 2011-3-31 06:49
很感人的故事~~zt!
回復 cartoonyang 2011-4-10 13:29
很感人的故事~~zt!
ZT!
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