It is said that
Northerners are generally more hospitable and cordial than Southerners. My personal experiences, in China or UK,
have basically convinced me that there』s some truth in that claim. While we
Southerners very much appreciate the Northerners』 warm-hearted receptions,
occasionally we might be slightly embarrassed by their over-enthusiasm, just as
my brief encounter with an old gentleman in Xi'an can testify.
In 1995, I was
chosen by my 「work unit」 to attend a short-term training course in Xi'an.
Naturally, I was very excited about the windfall because I had never been a pet
employee of my boss and attending a nationwide training course like that was
still something of a rarity in those days. What was even nicer was that the
nearly 4-week training was taking place in a city far away from where I was
working. I liked the trip partly because I could take a short break from the
daily grind and could have a chance to tour the city best known for its
historical legacies.
After reluctantly
waving goodbye to my wife, I got on an air-conditioned sleeper and started my
2-day railway journey. By the way, I need to point out that I hadn』t been very
keen on travelling and my job involved little
travelling, so I was a bit apprehensive before the journey started.
Unfortunately, the journey was worse than I expected, or simply unbearable. I
could hardly sleep at night on my berth, the upper berth, because a bunch of
salesmen were playing cards, smoking and chattering loudly all the time just
below my berth, but nobody intervened or dared to intervene. Anyway, when the
train finally arrived at the destination in more than 48 hours, I was really
exhausted, though not without a sense of relief about the end of the ordeal.
With a street map
in hand, I got on a bus (I wasn』t entitled to a reimbursement for a taxi fare), walked a few blocks and
managed to find the university where the training course was to take place. At
that time, it was toward the evening and most of the university staff had gone
home. In a small office, I was greeted warmly by a 50 something gentleman, Lao
Qi (head of the logistic office) in a slightly worn dark blue coat. Lao Qi was
very hospitable, in fact, so hospitable that he volunteered to give me a lift
to the hotel where we were supposed to accommodate - on his 28-inch bicycle.
Instinctively, I declined his sincere offer, thinking that my weight was too
much a burden to an old man, not to mention the small suitcase I carried with
me.
Furthermore, I was
a bit concerned about the issues of my own safety and face. Just imagine on a
busy street of a downtown area, a grey-haired old man carrying a young man with
a suitcase on a big BIKE - not a BMW. What an interesting scene that could be
in the eyes of the passers-by. However, Lao Qi insisted that I wouldn』t be able
to find that little known hotel amid tiny zigzag confusing alleys as the
darkness was falling. He also dismissed my idea of hailing a taxi by telling me
how some greedy and cunning taxi drivers had ripped off their non-local clients
in a 「legitimate」 way. Aware of the difficulty disguising my southern accent
and the fact that Lao Qi looked pretty
fit despite his age, I decided to follow his advice and landed onto the rear
rack of his big bike.
After
a roughly 15 minutes』 leg-numbing ride, thank God, we finally got to the
destination - safe and sound, even though I was still feeling embarrassed by
the passers-by』s scornful gazes at me all the way to the hotel, a somewhat
outdated 3 star hotel. After saying a number of big thank-you to Lao Qi, who
was immediately hurrying back home for the belated dinner, I dragged myself
into the lobby and started my check-in at the reception desk.