個人的經歷,閱歷,還有年齡 - 這自然就包括了時間。因為有許多事情beyond our control. There are things happened without a reason (sorry I am not religious) and bad things do happen to good people. While aging, we gradually learn to make peace with ourselves - accept what have happened to us and who we really are, but that does not necessarily mean the unfortunate things would automatically become the fortunate ones. 」幸與不幸,在於各人的造化和修行「並不錯,但過於簡單化了。