得不到父母完整愛的孩子生活有缺失

Nov 12, 2017 at 5:38 PM
得不到完整的父母之愛,那孩子長大一定是缺一點什麼的  Without full parental love, the child must be missing something when he grows up
親愛的主席，88，昨天我又聽見丫小句野孩子大呼小叫興高采烈激動萬分，原來不但是跟你們，而且還有閨蜜迪拜公主Aliya和新歡丹麥小王子Nikolai在一起暢談了.可是今天早上她一睜眼人還在床上，我又聽見她嘻嘻哈哈歡聲笑語了. 你們很有本事，能逗她笑呢！親親! 你們覺得她是跟你們談的開心，還是跟小夥伴們更有趣了？我覺得她對你們有一份尊敬，有點代溝.可是他們小孩子們在一起，那可是有共同生活感受和現代信息共享的.你們沒有這個優勢.有一天她被哪一個壞小子拐走了，你們可不要難過喲！成年人過了四五十歲，價值觀已經定了，對很多事情待看法和心態是沒有辦法改的.小孩子不一樣，他們就像花蕾，只要有空間就是拚命地想綻放的呀.你們心裡想想，很多事情可能跟父母是講不通的，而通過小孩子是不是更容易？政治外交，從來就不是硬邦邦冷冰冰的。人性交流嗎，就是立體的通過各種方面各個渠道。你看川普，一將他的外孫女放到舞台中心，他就眉開眼笑分外自豪的.我想杜拜國王和丹麥二王子，那兩個做父親的，看見孩子們這樣嬉笑歡樂打成一片，他們一定是滿心歡喜的.你們兩個做父親的，看見丫小句野孩子在小夥伴面前顯擺，她一直在那些世界領袖和世界精英面前顯擺的，是不是覺得很得意驕傲？做父母的所有辛苦，委屈，艱難，在這一刻都煙消雲散了.他們三個孩子，一個在歐洲，一個在阿拉伯半島，一個在北美, 如果Aliya 媽媽不是最受寵的，那這三個孩子人生中有一個相同點，都得不到完整的父母之愛. 沒有完整的父母之間夫妻之愛的，那孩子長大一定是缺一點什麼的. 從父母雙全完整高貴家庭出來的孩子，父母也許不希望孩子跟他們這樣孩子結交了。因為生命里缺少，所以他們很有可能不知道，長大也不知道如何在情感上經營家庭使溫暖有愛.擔心。只是這還不夠的呢，你們的世界政壇，接觸的都是政府政界的人士，是以各國作為單位來介紹各個國家的文化傳統.但是比這個更豐富多彩的，是散落在世界各地的不同族裔。中國有56個民族，俄國有130多個民族。我在想，如果在每一個民族裡挑選一個有影響力的孩子，希望他們能夠說英文，來介紹他們的生活和族裔文化，那在後面支持他們的就不只是他們的父母了，這樣子他們的影響力一定非同小可，說不定比那些高高在上的各國領袖們的影響還大.

Dear Chairman, 88. Yesterday I heard the wild child yelling and cheering with excitement. It turned out not only to be with you, but also her girlfriends Dubai Princess Aliya and new friend Danish Prince Nikolai had a chat together. But this morning as soon as her eyes were open, the person was still in bed, and I heard her laughing and shouting again. You are very capable, and can make her laugh! Kiss! Do you think she is happy talking to you, or is it more interesting to talk to her friends? I think she has a respect for you, a bit of a generation gap. But when their children are together,  they have a common life experience and modern information sharing. You do not have this advantage. One day she was abducted by a bad boy, Don't you be sad! Adults when over 40 or 50 years old, and their values have been set. There is no way to change the attitude and mentality of many things. Children are different, they are like flower buds, as long as there is space, they desperately want to bloom. Think about it in your heart, many things may not be able to communicate with parents, and is it easier for children? Political diplomacy has never been cold. Humanity communication is three-dimensional through various aspects and channels. Look at Trump, as soon as you put his granddaughter in the center of the stage, he smiled with pride. I think the King of Dubai and the second prince of Denmark, the two fathers, when saw the children happily merging together like this, they must be full of joy. The two of you fathers, seeing the wild girl in front of their friends, has she always been in front of those world leaders and world elites, do you feel very proud? All the hardship, grievances, and hardships of parenting disappeared at this moment. Their three children, one in Europe, one in the Arabian Peninsula, and one in North America. If Aliya』s mother is not the most favored, then these three children』s lives have one thing in common, and they can』t get full parental love. If they don』t have full parental love, then the child must have grown up with something missing. For a child from a noble family with both parents, the parents may not want their children to make friends with them. Because of the lack of life, they are likely to not know, grow up and do not know how to make warm and loving family emotionally. Worry. It』s just not enough, your World Political Forum is in contact with people from the government and political circles. It takes countries as units to introduce the cultural traditions of various countries. But more colorful than this is the different ethnic groups scattered around the world. China has 56 ethnic groups, and Russia has more than 130 ethnic groups. I'm thinking that if you select an influential child in each ethnic group and hope that they can speak English to introduce their lives and ethnic culture, then it is not just their parents who support them in the future. Their influence must not be trivial, they may be even more influential than the leaders of other countries.