大連的氣候比哈爾濱要好，如果戶口和醫療關係可以轉移的話，可以建議老人搬家。
我當是去福岡呢，那更好了！那才是孝順的女兒！作者: 四月憤青 時間: 2010-12-30 23:29
搬家是為了你「孝順」的方便，而並非為了你爹娘的生活便利。請問，你能將你爹娘生活了一輩子的鄰里街坊/社交圈一併搬到大連新居處否？作者: xoyuanfen 時間: 2010-12-31 12:50
尊重他們才是孝順， 但也可以再勸說一下。作者: smartman 時間: 2011-3-28 23:02
no, you should let your parents live with you together. seems you are in Japan. why can't you apply for immigrantion (green card?) for your parents to Japan?作者: cherryblossom 時間: 2011-3-29 12:51 回復 smartman 20樓 的帖子
In that case, I will have to apply for Japanese nationality, which is not what I want. I live here with a permanent residence visa. 作者: smartman 時間: 2011-3-29 13:34 本帖最後由 smartman 於 2011-3-29 13:37 編輯
Well, that (I mean, get a Japanese citizenship unwillingly) is your sacrifice for your parents. If they are willing to live with you in Japan, you should become naturalized and move your parents into Japan. Later on, you may give up the Japanese citizenship if you really intend to.
My implicit assumption is: you can take care of your parents well if they move to Japan to live with you. To satisfy this, I think, at the minimum, Japan should provide somehow a unform senior citizen welfare and medical benefits system completely or largely free of charge. Otherwise, you may suffer severe financial burden due to your parents.
Does Japan provide some kind of free welfare and medical benefits at least for senior citizens?作者: cherryblossom 時間: 2011-3-30 00:33 回復 smartman 22樓 的帖子
Well, Japan takes very good care of older people. One of the evidence is that it maintains the greatest average longevity in the world. It is a kind of fair welfare to all citizens, with the permission of staying in Japan for more than 6 months. My problem has less to do with finance. The key here is that my parents won't move to anywhere. They just want to stay at their home. 作者: smartman 時間: 2011-3-30 04:52 本帖最後由 smartman 於 2011-3-30 04:53 編輯
if your parents are not willing to move out of haerbin, then there is no point to discuss an appropriate location. my voice was advising on a choice between daliay and elsewhere. I think living in japan together is better than living alone. 作者: smartman 時間: 2011-3-30 04:55 回復 cherryblossom 23樓 的帖子
is cherry in blossom in japan now? Washington DC is under annual cherry blossom festival this and next weeks. Beautiful scenary.作者: cherryblossom 時間: 2011-3-30 16:10 回復 smartman 24樓 的帖子
They are willing to move, that is the point. I have given up. It is practically difficult for me to go back to my hometwon and settle there. 作者: cherryblossom 時間: 2011-3-30 16:11 回復 smartman 25樓 的帖子
Not yet here, because the temperature is lower this year than it should be. But it is going to be the season around the beginning of April.
很理解你的心情，老人固執很麻煩，丹奇說的是，不過操作起來挺不容易，最終還是要搬，有人可以幫你說服一下么~~？
叫他們搬離哈爾濱 ，也就是等於讓他們住監獄啊，人生地不熟的