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作者: cwjjzhou    時間: 2006-2-20 02:52
標題: Positive Attitude is so important to everything
SUCCESS -- it's a matter of having a positive attitude and applying motivational principles on a daily basis. At this point, you'll find the resources that will enable you -- and everyone else in your organization -- to perform at a higher level and achieve the success you desire.

Motivation is like a fire; unless you add fuel, it goes out.
Focus on where you want to go, not on what you fear.
- Unknown  
He who never made a mistake, never made a discovery.
- Samuel Smiles  
True love begins when nothing is looked for in return.
- Antoine De Saint-Exupery  

Getting Older Has Its Advantages


Youth is exalted in today's media. Magazines show us young, attractive models. Newspaper ads tout plastic surgery. TV infomercials show us how to sculpt the perfect body. As a result, many people go on a frantic search for the "fountain of youth." They want to turn back the clock and fight the aging process. When is the last time you saw aging portrayed in a positive light?

Ironically, teenagers and those in their 20s sometimes wish they were older! When you're young, you're often plagued by insecurity and wondering how you'll fit into the world. While most people tend to concentrate on the downside of getting older, let's focus for a moment on the upside. Below are some of the benefits of getting older. (By the way, the following benefits also apply to those who are "emotionally older," or more mature, regardless of how many birthdays they've had.)


You don't care what other people think. As a teenager, you're deeply concerned about what your friends think of you. You want to fit into the group. In your 20s, you still tend to be very concerned about how others perceive you. As the years pass, you care less and less about the opinions of others. It's quite a refreshing change. You realize that the most important person to please is yourself - and when you accomplish that, you're also in a better position to serve others.


You realize that you can remain healthy by following disciplined, moderate routines. You learn that moderate habits can produce excellent results over the long term. Thirty minutes of daily exercise such as walking or lifting moderate weights can keep you in very good shape. To remain fit, you don't have to run 5 miles a day or follow fad diets that are extreme.


You appreciate your family more. Some people are fortunate to have a deep appreciation for their family in their teens, 20s and 30s. That's not the case with many of us, however. After 30, and especially in your 40s, 50s and beyond, you come to appreciate your immediate and extended family. You enjoy getting together to reminisce about the "old days" as well as to catch up on what everyone is doing.


You don't get caught up in the petty stuff. Remember when you thought that every potential client or every project at work had "life or death" consequences. You put yourself through enormous stress for no reason. As you get older, you still take your work seriously but you've gained perspective. The small stuff doesn't throw you anymore. It's a lot easier to live and work with that pressure off your back.


You realize that numerical age is not crucial. Granted, you may not heal as quickly or see as sharply as you did in your 20s or 30s. However, whether you're 40, 50 or 70, it's only a number. What matters is how you feel, mentally and physically. Many people feel healthier and stronger at 50 than they did at 25. If you have a lousy attitude and hate your work at age 30, you'll feel older than a 70 year-old who has a great attitude and enjoys life.


You start to hit your stride in your career. In your 40s and beyond, you develop a better understanding of your strengths and weaknesses, your likes and dislikes. You've gained experience in your field (often by making mistakes) and know where your talents are best suited.


You no longer seek perfection. This relates both to your appearance and the way you perform your work or activities. The ads on TV urge you to get rock hard abs and to eliminate any trace of body fat. You no longer buy into this nonsense. You want to look and feel good but there's no need to kill yourself trying to attain the perfect body. You also settle for excellence in your work, knowing that trying to make everything "perfect" is an unreasonable goal that causes stress. Sure, there are some exceptions to this rule - for instance, we want those performing laser surgery on us to be perfect in their aim!
作者: cwjjzhou    時間: 2006-2-20 02:54
[B]actually all of what we experienced or are experiencing is full of choices.

If you want to be the  owner of life, you must choose life, not life chooses you! just like your career and the road under your feet , you can choose work, meanwhile, work  can choose you, so is the road under your feet, whatever road you want to go, then finally you will be.

Be positive and aggressive, hopefully all negative thoughts stay far away from all the people, if so, all of us will find life is so beautiful! please don't complain, don't argue, don't think bad things, be a complete ego,if you think you are good enough; if not, set somebody as your  good  example,  using his or her spirit encourage you, then move forward to the goal, you will achieve a lot. trust me!

cherish what we have and have everlasting aggressive heart, we will find our life could be so beautiful, then enjoy it...

friends, if you have time, please take a look I took the pictures about the sun, they are so wonderful and they are my favourite.  they are very natural without any exteral things, inner beauty is the most beautiful.right?

may your life be just like the happy smiling sun...wish all the vitoria would belong to those who live with full of heart and love.  [/COLOR][/SIZE][/B]



作者: cwjjzhou    時間: 2006-2-20 02:56
[CENTER]你選擇什麼,什麼便與你相伴;

你選擇幸福, 你就幸福,

你選擇快樂, 你就快樂,

你選擇寧靜, 你就寧靜,

你選擇和平, 你就和平,


你選擇什麼, 你就...[/CENTER][/COLOR][/SIZE]

[B][CENTER]whatever you choose, then you will have it company;

you choose happiness, so you are happy;

you choose being glad, then you are glad;

you choose quiet, then you are quiet;

you choose peace, then peace chooses you!

whatever you choose, then you will be or get...[/CENTER][/COLOR][/B]
作者: cwjjzhou    時間: 2006-2-20 02:57
so life is up to you, if you want to have a peaceful and quiet life,so first ask youself to act that way!
作者: cwjjzhou    時間: 2006-2-20 03:04
There is nothing you cannot be. Nothing you cannot do. There is nothing you cannot have! Once you learn the simple principles of mastering a positive attitude, all that you want you will have. THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE  is committed to teaching, informing, and helping you to achieve your goals through a consistent state of attitude EVERY DAY OF YOUR LIFE, FOREVER.

You can be, do, and have anything with the proper ATTITUDE!

At this article you will be able to read stories that will inspire you, and quotes that will motivate you to strive for new highs in your personal and professional lives.

Positive Attitude  is an motivation dedicated to helping people and teaching people how to believe in themselves, and make every day count. The Positive Attitude  will help you as an individual, your company, your organization, or family, lead the most productive and fulfilling life you can!


There is no such thing as failure. There are only outcomes. The only time you fail is the last time you try, so give youself one more chance to try, maybe you will succeed this time!

remember, Times you stand up are just one more than that of  you are hit down!
作者: 尋花問柳    時間: 2006-2-20 07:57
wherever we live, we should have a positive attitude. wherever we live, we will confront all kinds of frustration, ups and downs. if we face them with optimistic attitude, all the issues will have their solutions. on the contrary, if we think about the things in other people's stance, every problem is so easily  sloved!
作者: robisme    時間: 2006-2-23 05:23
I agree that positive atteitude could chenge one's life.




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